Relationship tips niye kichu kotha bolte chai - experience theke shikha

Assalamu alaikum bhai log, kemon achen sobai? Aaj ekta important topic niye kotha bolte chai - relationship tips. Amra Bangladeshi ra usually ei bishoy niye khub ekta open hoi na, kintu ami mone kori experience share korle sobai upokrito hobe. Ami nijeo koyekta serious relationship er modhye diye gechi, ar oigulo theke onek kichu shikhechi. Tai bhablam apnader shathe share kori, hoyto karo kaje lagbe inshallah.

Prothom kotha holo communication. Bhai, ei jinista ami kotota bujhte pari boltei parbo na. Amar first serious relationship ta shesh hoye gechilo just ei karone - amra duijoneo nijeder feelings properly express kortam na. Mone kortam "o to bujhbe", kintu real life e ei rokom assumption kora dangerous. Apni jodi kichute hurt hon, seedha bolen. Partner er sathe kotha bolun, argue korun jodi dorkar hoy, kintu silent treatment diye kichui solve hoy na. Dhaka te thaki, traffic e atke thaki, stress to thakbei - ei shob niye khola mone kotha bolte hobe.

Dwitio important bishoy holo trust ar space deoya. Dekhen, bKash er password share kora ar partner er phone check kora ek jinish na. Relationship mane ei na je apni 24 ghonta ek shathe thakben ba protita message monitor korben. Ami emon onek couple dekhechi jara ei rokom possessive hoye relationship ta shesh kore diyeche. Apnar partner er friends thakbe, hobbies thakbe, career thakbe - ei shob respect korun. Trust emnei hoy na, time lage, kintu eita foundation.

Tritio tip holo appreciation ar effort. Cha kheye sobai bole "valo hoyeche" - kintu partner jodi apnar jonno kichu kore, ta acknowledge korun. Chhoto chhoto jinish - "tumi aaj khub sundor lagcho", "tomar banano khichuri ta awesome chilo", "office theke eto tired hoye eshe amake time dicho, thank you". Ei chhoto chhoto kotha gulo relationship ke alive rakhe. Ami ekta mistake kortam - mone kortam ei shob to obvious, bolte hobe keno. Kintu na bhai, bolte hobe. Partner mind reader na.

Shesh kotha, compromise shikhun kintu nijeke haraben na. Healthy relationship e duijonei adjust kore, ekjon na. Jodi dekhen shudhu apnii sob somoy adjust korchen ar partner er kono effort nei, ta red flag. Alhamdulillah ami ekhon emon karo sathe achi je amader mutual respect ache, amra duijonei effort dei. Tai bolchi, patience rakhun, right person er jonno wait korun, kintu settle for less korben na. Inshallah sobkichu thik hoye jabe, just honest thakun nijeke ar partner er sathe. Apnader ki experience ache ei niye? Comments e janan! 😊