21 June 2025 er ei post ta likhte giye mone holo, amar gulshan er freelancer life ar biyer porer experience niye ekta open discussion kora dorkar. Biyer age sobai bole je biye mane shukh, biye mane stability, kintu bhai, real life e kichu challenge to thakei. Ami chesta korbo amar kache ja shikha ache seta share korte, jate aro kono bhai ba apu jodi confused thaken, tara kichu guideline pete paren inshallah.
Prothom poramorsho holo communication. Eto busy life, client deadline, project handover, US time zone e kaj, ei shob er moddheo ekta chesta thaka dorkar je partner er sathe open kotha bola jay. Amar wife khub understanding, alhamdulillah, kintu amar kajer pressure ene chilo choto choto misunderstanding. Pore bujhlam, diner moddhe 10 minute jodi ek cup cha niye দুজন shanti te boshe kotha bola jay, tahole half tension chole jay. Apni freelancer hon, office worker hon, ektu time diley biye stable thake.
Dwitiyo poramorsho holo financial transparency. Bangladesh e onek couple er moddhe money niye awkwardness thake. Amar case e ami jodi Daraz theke kichu kine asi, ba new tech setup kori, taile age bolay niye niley onek bhalo thake. Wife o bKash budget niye bole, ami o amar earning plan share kori. Ete trust baray. Amar ek bandhu mirpur e thake, se bolto je tar biyer shuru te ei financial topic avoid koray huyhu tension hoye chilo. So bhai, eta clear rakhen.
Tritiyo poramorsho holo ekta growth mindset rakha. Biye shuru te sobai romantic mood e thake, kintu 6 month pori real life start hoy. Daily routine, kajer pressure, family expectation, shoshur bari te dawah, chittagong ba sylhet e occasional travel, ei shob manush ke realistic kore dey. To ekta jinish mone rakhben, partner hoilo shathi. Tar sathe shikhte hobe, adjust korte hobe, ar ekshathe improve korte hobe. Mashaallah, jodi dui jon e effort den, tahole biye ta ekta team work er moto hoy.
Seshe bolbo, biyer shomoy jeta kore na, seta holo nijer mental health er care. Freelancer life e nightsession, deadline, client feedback er stress thakei. Partner er sathe ektu evening walk, jamuna future park e ek cup coffee, ba shudhu rooftop e boshe hawa khaoar time dile relationship refresh hoy. Inshallah, sobai jara biye korte chachchen ba notun biye hoyechhen, tara patience rakhben, ekjon arekjon ke respect korben. Biye ekta beautiful journey, bhalo rakhte chaile dui jon er effort lagbei. 😊
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