Assalamualaikum bhai era, kemon achen sobai? Aj ektu relationship niye kotha bolte chai. Freelancing korte korte Gulshan e bose onek kichu shikhechi, kintu relationship manage kora ta amar jonno shob theke boro challenge chilo. Tai bhablam amar experience share kori, hoito karo kaje lagbe inshallah.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Bhai, ami nijer bhul theke shikhechi je partner er shathe kotha na bolle shob jhamela bere jay. Amar girlfriend er shathe amader majhe majhe misunderstanding hoto, karon ami freelancing niye etoi busy thaktam je time e reply ditam na. Ekdin oke bujhiye bollam je ami ki korchi, keno reply dite late hoy. Tar por theke alhamdulillah shob thik hoye gelo. Tai apnader bolbo, choto choto bishoy niye kotha bolun, bujhiye bolun. Raga kore chup thakle shomossa ar boro hoy.
Dwitio jinish holo trust er byapar. Dekhen bhai, relationship e trust na thakle kichu nei. Ami dekhechi onek couple er moddhe trust issue thake, Facebook e ke like dilo, Instagram e ke follow korlo - ei niye jhamela. Amar kotha holo, jodi apni nijer partner ke trust na koren, tahole relationship e thakben keno? Haan, shobai perfect na, kintu basic trust ta thaka dorkar. Amra duijon e ekjonke ek jon ke space dei, eta important.
Tritio tip holo quality time er byapar. Bhai, ami Gulshan e office kori, shekhane bose din rat khepe jai. Kintu bujhlam je week e ekdin holeo partner er shathe time spend kora dorkar. Dhanmondi te giye fuchka khawa, ba Hatirjheel e ghurte jawa - emon choto choto moment gulo relationship ke strong rakhe. Taka khoroch korar dorkar nei beshi, just time dile hoy. Amra Saturday te usually bairer khabar khai, sometimes biryani, sometimes Pizza - eta amader routine hoye geche mashallah.
Shesh kotha, patience rakhte hobe bhai. Relationship mane shudhu valobashar golpo na, eikhane compromise ache, jhogra ache, kanna ache. Kintu shob kichu patience diye handle korle shomossa solve hoy. Amar 3 bochorer relationship e onek up down geche, kintu amra duijon e try kori bujhte. Inshallah apnara o try korben. Kono proshno thakle comment e bolben, help korte parle khushi hobo! đ
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