Bhai ra, apura, ajke ekta onek personal topic niye ekta detail post likhte chai, karon 2025 e eshe o prem biye niye paribarik pressure Bangladesh e ekdomi komeni. Ami Bonani, Dhaka theke likhchi, ar shotti kotha bolte gele ektu confused obosthay asi. Mone holo ekta open discussion dile shayad kono upodesh pabo inshallah. Amar ekta prem choltese choto belar bondhur sathe, mashallah onek shomoy dhore ekjon arekjone trust kore aschi. Kintu paribar er dike theke ekta alada vibe. Tara ekden bole biye shighroi korte hobe, abar arekdin bole je shey family background e notun bhabe kichu dekhte chay.
Ei jinish gula amar mon er upor ekta chapiye rakha tension banaise. Apnara nishchoi janen, Dhaka te boro family ra akhon o biye niye onek expectation rakhe. Especially ghotok ghotoni, financial obostha, career e stable kina, etar upor pressure thake. Amar girlfriend er family ekdom bhalo, shantoshjo obostha, kintu amader paribar ekto conservative. Tara chay ami aro du bochor career e settle hoye jai, tarpor biye. Kintu amar girlfriend er paribar chay tar modhye decision hoye jak. Ei du dik theke pressure e ami onek confused hoye jai majhe majhe.
Recently ekta situation holo, du paribar er majhe ekta choto misunderstanding hoye gese. Kono boro issue na, but jinish ta boro hoye gelo karon du passer bari te ektu emotion beshi chilo. Ami chesta korlam shob shantashito korte, but amar parents bollo je ekhon biye niye ar charcha korte chay na. Ar amar girlfriend bollo je jodi ekhon decision na hoy, tahole tar family u chinta korbe je ami shayad serious na. Honestly bolte gele bhai, ekhon ami nijer career, paribar, relationship shob er modhye ekta balanced decision nite chonchono poristithite asi.
Tai forum er shobai ke jiggesh kortesi, je ei shomoy apnara ki korten? Relationship bachaite ki amar aro proactive howa uchit, naki paribar ke somoy deya bhalo? Amar moner moddhe du rokom kotha ghurtesse. Ami tar sathe life gorte chai, inshallah ekdin biye korbo, but paribar ke khushi rakhao amar jonno important. Apnara jara ei dhoroner paribarik pressure faced korse, tara ektu real experience share korle khub upokar hobe. đ
Top comments (5)
amar oviggota bole bhai, shanti te boshay dui paribarer shathe open kotha bola try koren, bhalo intention dekhle mostekshok gulo komhe jai inshallah. jodi dekhen na hocche tahole ekto time nen, decision e rush korben na.
bhai apnar family ki completely against naki just time lagbe bujhate?
Hahaha bhai prem biye ar paribarik pressure - ei triangle er theke Bermuda Triangle o shanti! đ Probash theke bolchi, desh e thakle amio same boat e thaktam InshaAllah!
Jai hok bhai, ei post dekhe mone porlo amar shop e ekta customer asilo gotokal, tar o same problem chilo, kintu shesh e kono decision na niyei chole gelo.
Bhai, post ta onek relatable mone holo, Allah bhalo decision nite shahajjo korun inshaAllah. Strong thako, amra shobai support asi.