Family business niye biye te problem - ki korbo bujhte parchi na

Assalamualaikum sobai ke. Amar ekta serious somossa niye kotha bolte chai ajke. Ami Banani te thaki, nijei ekta small business cholai - e-commerce related kaj. Alhamdulillah business ta bhalo cholche, last 3 years dhore established. Kintu problem hocche biye niye. Amr boyosh 29 bochor, family pressure toh ache e bhai, kintu main issue ta onno jaygay.

Amar girlfriend er sathe 4 bochor dhore relationship. Amra dujon e serious, biye korte chai. Kintu tar family amake accept korte parche na just because ami job kori na, business kori. Tara mone kore government job ba multinational company te chakri thakle "secure" future hoy. Amar business er income actually onek government job er theke beshi, but tao tader mindset change hocche na. Girlfriend er baba bolen je "businessman mane risk, ajke ache kal nai." Eta shune khub koshto laglo bhai, solly.

Amar nijr family o completely supportive na. Tara chaiche ami oi meye ke bhule giye tader choice er kono meye ke biye kori. Maa bolen je "eto meye ache deshe, keno oi family er pechone ghurcho?" But bhai ami ei meye ke valobashi, 4 ta bochor ekta choto somoy na. Amra onek kichu share korchi, onek plan korchi future niye. Akhon suddenly sob shesh kore dibo? Eta ki thik hobe?

Sob cheye beshi koshto lagche je ami kivabe prove korbo je business kora mane berogar na. E-commerce, tech startups - egula toh ajkal er future. Pathao, Chaldal, Sheba er founder ra ki chakri kore eto dure gechilo? Kintu older generation ke bujhano onek kothin. Tara still sei "sorkari chakri" er mentality te atke ache. Girlfriend amake support kore, but tar family er against e giye biye kora - seta ki wise decision hobe? Pore relationship e problem hote pare na?

Ami confused bhai, solly. Ekdike girlfriend er family ke convince korar try cholche, arekdike nijr family ke manage kora. Duita family ke satisfy kora almost impossible mone hochhe. Apnader moddhe ke jodi similar situation face kore thaken, please share korun ki korlen. Ba kono advice thakle bolun. Inshallah kono ekta solution ber hobe. Duaa korben amader jonno. 🤲