Amar biye hoyechilo 5 bochor age, ar aj bolte pari alhamdulillah decision ta thik chilo. Kintu biye korar age ami nijeo onek confused chilam, ki dekhe biye korbo, family background na education na income? Banani te thaki, charpashe onek educated meye ar chele dekhi jara same confusion e ache. Tai bhablam amar experience share kori, hoyto karo upokare ashbe.
Ami jeta shikhechhi seta holo compatibility ta shob cheye boro bishoy. Income badte pare, education improve korte pare, kintu duijon manush jodi ek shathe comfortable na hoy tahole shob bekar. Amar wife er shathe prothom kotha hoyechilo arranged setup e, kintu amra time niyechilam ek opor ke bujhte. Pray 4-5 bar dekha hoyechilo biye thik korar age, phone e kotha hoto regularly. Eta important bhai, rush korben na kono obosthay. Family pressure thakbe, kintu apnar jibon apnake bashte hobe.
Ar ekta kotha, perfect keu nai duniyate. Apni perfect na, apnar partner o perfect hobe na. Biye mane holo duijon imperfect manush milke ekta journey shuru kora. Respect ar understanding thakle baki shob adjust hoye jay inshallah. Amake onek e jiggesh kore kibhabe bujhbo right person kina, ami boli jodi tar shathe kotha bole peace feel koren, tahole sheta positive sign. Baki Allah valo janen, dua korben shobai. đ¤˛
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Bhai 5 bochor er biye niye advice diben, ar amra shunbo? Eta to shob lokey bolte pare, real test hoy 15-20 bochor pore.
Bhai apni Banani te thaken tai eto relax hoye kotha bolten, amra district e thaki amader jonno eto easy na sob kichu.
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jaikhane biye niye sobai kotha bolche, amar abar off topic e mone porlo je mama Sylhet e abar jhor er alert dise, sobai dua rakhben please.
mama biye decision nite giye kon jinis ta ke sabcheye priority disilen, family background na character, eita aro clear kore bolben?
Bhai eita pore mone porlo amar ek bondhu gechu mash e biye korlo, reception e giye dekhi book stall diye dise gift er bodole - unique idea chilo!