Assalamualaikum bhai ra, ami nijeo married manus, tai ektu experience theke bolchi. Biye ta shudhu duijon manusher bepar na, dui ta family er bepar. Tai rush kore decision niben na. Meye ba chele jetar sathe biye korchen, tar family background, tar education, ar sobcheye important tar nature ta bhalo kore bujhe nin. Ami dekhechi onek couple just dekhte bhalo laglo ar biye kore fello, pore giye problem shuru hoy. Inshallah apnara wise decision niben.
Financial stability er kotha ta o bole rakhi. Biye mane khali ceremony na bhai, tar pore to real life shuru hoy. Apnar income stable kina, future plan ki, ghorer khoroch kivabe cholbe, ei sob thik kore rakhen age. Ar openly kotha bolun partner er sathe, kono topic hide korben na. Ami janina keno Bangladeshi families e financial kotha openly hoy na, but eta khub important. Alhamdulillah ami ar amar wife shob openly discuss kori, tai amader understanding bhalo.
Last e bolbo, compromise kora shikhte hobe duijon ke. Perfect kono manush nai ei duniya te. Choto choto jinish niye jhogra na kore, boro picture ta dekhen. Ar parents er kotha shunben, tader experience ache, kintu final decision ta apnar nijeri. Beshi pressure e poira kono decision korben na. Shomoy nin, bhalo kore chinun, ar dua korte thakun. Inshallah shob bhalo hobe đ¤˛
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