Assalamu Alaikum bhai log, kemon achen sobai? Ajke ektu serious topic niye kotha bolte chai - relationship tips niye. Ami nijer experience ar around e ja dekhi, shob milie kichu kotha share korte chai. Inshallah karo upkar hobe.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Eta shunle simple mone hoy, kintu actually kotojon thik moto korte pare? Ami nijer relationship e dekhechi, choto choto bhul bujha jome jome boro problem hoye jay. Ekta example dei - amar bou er sathe amra prothom prothom "ami thik achi" bole chup thaktam, kintu bhitore gudum gudum. Erpor shikhlam je khola mone kotha na bolle, dui jon e suffer kori. Ekhon rule baniyechi - raat e ghumer age jodi kono problem thake, solve kore ghumabo. Alhamdulillah eta khub help koreche.
Dwitio important jinish holo respect ar trust. Bhai, relationship e phone check kora, Facebook stalk kora - eta kono healthy sign na. Ami Agrabad e thaki, freelancing kori, tai ghor thekei kaj. Amar wife office kore. Prothom dike amader moddhe ektu insecurity chilo, "ki koro shara din?" type questions. Kintu erpor bujhlam, trust na thakle kichu e thake na. Apni jodi partner ke trust na koren, tahole relationship ta already shesh. Eta ekta foundation er moto - weak hole pura building e problem.
Tritio tip holo quality time. Ajkal sobai busy - office, job, freelancing, social media. Kintu din e ektu somoy partner er jonno rakha dorkar. Ami chai, shoptahe ekdin amra phone off kore, Pathao diye kothao ghurti mari ba ghor e boshei movie dekhi. Choto choto moment gulo relationship ke alive rakhe. Expensive date er dorkar nai, ekta cha er cup share korlei hoy sometimes.
Last kotha boli - patience ar growth mindset. Manush change hoy, relationship o evolve kore. Prothom bochor ar ponchom bochor same thakbe na, eta normal. Ektu adjust korte hobe, ektu compromise korte hobe. Ego ke pocket e rakhen, love ke priority den. Ami nijeo perfect na, amar bou o na, kintu amra together shikchi ar grow korchi. Inshallah apnader relationship o blessed hok. Karo kichu add korar thakle comment e janaben bhai đ
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Darun likhsen bhai, communication niye ei tips gula asoley onek upokari laglo, Allah apnar jonno bhalo rakhuk.
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amar oviggote communication holo shomporker backbone bhai, moner kotha clear bole nile onek misunderstanding komhe jai InshaAllah. apnara dujonei ek sathe time nile aro bhalo hobe.