bhai, prem-biayr bishoy niye paribarer moddhe jodi tension thake, tahole sobar age shantitar shathe kotha bola dorkar. onek shomoy amra nijera stress er moddhe thaki bole paribarer kotha bujhte pari na. apni age nijer moner position clear kore nin, tarpor shantovabe ma-babar shathe boshe bolen je apnar ichcha ki, karon shotti kotha boley gele paribareo bojhar sujog paoa jai. inshallah, jodi apni adob-shisro bhabe kotha bolen, tahole tarao mone-mone apnake support dite paren. ekhonkar din e dekhte pai je onek paribar besh opened-minded hoye jacche.
jodi ek pashe prem, ar arek pashe paribarer chinta thake, tahole apnar partner er shatheo honestly kotha bola dorkar. dujon mile plan kore paribare ke dhire dhire involve korte paren, jate ora mone kore je apnara taratari kono decision nichen na. eita khub important je apnar partner o paribare sathe respectfull behave koren, karon eta paribarer chokhe ekta positive impression toiri kore. onek shomoy soto ekta misunderstanding baro somossay porinoto hoye jay, tai shombhob hole misunderstanding gula shuru tay solve kore felen. alhamdulillah, jokhon du pasher manush effort dei, tokhon shomossha ashte pare, kintu solution o ase.
sesh porjonto, apni dua korte thakun, karon moner shanti r hidayat shudhu Allah ta’ala i dite paren. jodi kono staff apnar upor mentally pressure dey, tahole ekto break niye mon fresh kore nin. sothik somoy dekhle shobai kotha bujhe, kintu tar jonno dhorsho dhorar mane shobar dorkar hoy. inshallah boro kichu decide karar age apni ekta trusted relative ba friend er opinion nite paren, jara neutral thakbe. Allah apnar jonno bhalo ekta rasta rekhechen, sudhu dhire dhire sheta clear hoye uthbe, inshallah.
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আমার অভিজ্ঞতায় আগে নিজের মনটা শান্ত করে নিয়ে আম্মা-আব্বার সাথে ধীরে ধীরে আলাপ করলে অনেক ভুল বোঝাবুঝি কমে যায় ইনশাআল্লাহ। চাইলে একজন ঘনিষ্ঠ চাচা বা বড় ভাইকেও মাঝে রাখতে পারেন, এতে সবাই একটু সহজে কথা বলতে পারে।
bhai apni thik bolsen, communication e shob. amr suggestion holo ekta neutral time bair kora jokhn shobai relaxed thake, tokhon kotha bolte - raat e khaoar por usually shobai thanda thake, try korte paren.
amaro ekbar emon hoyechilo mama, moner stress komanor por ma babar shathe bose shantyte kotha boltei shob clear hoye chhilo, inshaAllah apnar o shanti asbe.
amaro ekbar emon hoye chilo bhai, Rajshahi theke prem biye niye paribarer shathe kotha bolte onek tension hoisilo but shantovabe bose bolae alhamdulillah shob upor niche clear hoiya gese.
amar-o ekbar emon obostha hoyechilo bhai, tokhon barir shobai tension e chilo but shantovabe boshle alhamdulillah somossa kome jay. mone pore gelo amar din gulor kotha.
Arre bhai, ei jinis niye lecture diye kono laf hobe na, paribar jodi matha garam thake tahole shanti kothay pai bolo তো! Ei deshe prem biye niye logic chalalei ulta ঝামেলা বাড়ে.