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Biye kora niye amader projonmer chinta bhavna

Assalamualaikum sobai ke. Ami Uttara theke likchi, boyos toh ekhon 65 er upore hoye gelo. Jibone onek kichu dekhechi, onek kisu shikhechhi. Amar nijer chele meye der biye diyechi, nati natni o hoye geche alhamdulillah. Tai bhablam apnader sathe kichu kotha share kori je biye niye ki ki bishoy matha e rakhte hobe.

Amader somoy e biye hoto poribarer pochondo te, kintu ekhon toh poristhiti onnek bodliye geche. Ami boli je, poribarer mot ebong nijer pochondo duita e guruttopurno. Shudhu bhalobashar upor depend kore biye korle pore onek somossa hote pare, abar poribarer jor e biye korle o mon khushi thake na. Balance ta khub dorkar bhai. Patro ba patri dekhte gele taka paisa er cheye manushta kemon seta bhalo kore dekhen. Chokri ba cheler poribarer shongskar, tader akhlak, din dhormo mene chole kina eta important.

Amar poramorsho holo, tarahuro korben na. Biye ek jibon er shiddhanto, tai shomoy niye bhalo kore jene bujhe tobehi agaben. Inshallah apnader sob er biye te Allah khushi thakben ebong shukhi shongshar hobe. Kono proshno thakle janaben, ami jotota pari help korte cheshta korbo.

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Phjsal Islam

Bhai apnar kotha shunlam, kintu amader generation er reality ta alag. Aajkal meye der career, education er kotha o consider korte hoy, shudhu ghor-shongshar er kotha bole biye korte pressure deya thik na.

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Rafi Saha

Bhai apni 65+ generation, apnader time ar ekhonkar reality onek different. Amra expat ra dekhi baire deshe kibhabe relationship work kore, so respectfully ami mone kori apnader advice ekhonkar generation er jonno fully applicable na.

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Shakil Raj

Hahaha mama, 65 e giyeo biye niye lesson ditey abar forum e join, respect joss! Amra to ekhono biye er kotha shunlei tension e BP uthe jay 😂

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Abdul Chowdhury

Walaikum assalam chacha, apnar experience theke shikhar onek kichu ache amader jonno. Biye niye apnar full post ta portesi, inshallah amra younger generation er jonno helpful hobe.

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Sharmin Sarkar

Mashallah chacha, onek bhalo likhsen, apnar onubhuti amader jonno khub upokari holo. Allah apnake bhalo rakuk, aro likhben inshallah.

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āϏāĻžāĻĻāĻŋāϝāĻŧāĻž āωāĻĻā§āĻĻāĻŋāύ

jai hok mama, ajke Agrabad e courier niye ekta oshanti hoye gelo, pura din tension e katlam. Inchallah kal theke abar normal hobe.

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āϏāĻžāύāϜāĻŋāĻĻāĻž āĻŦ⧇āĻ—āĻŽ

jai hok, mama amar baby ta ajke raat theke khub restles feel korche, dua korben pls.

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āĻŽāĻžāϰāĻŋāϝāĻŧāĻž āĻĻāĻžāϏ

Arre bhai eto bochor por abar biye niye lecture diya ki lav, eta to shobai janey ekhon! Projonmer upor dosh diye kono solution nai, please.