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Shihab Saha
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Biye niye amar onubhob o kichu upodesh

Bhai ra, ajke 15 July 2025 e boshye biye niye ekta chhoto golpo plus amar kichu onubhob share kortesi. Ami Agrabad, Chattogram er freelancer, tai barite thakai office pressure kom, kintu biye porer life balance kora ekdom alada ekta challenge. Shuru te mone hoy chilo sab kichu easy hobe, kintu real life e bujhlam je biye mane dujon manusher ek sathe thaka, ekjon arekjon ke bujhte cheshta kora, ar protyekh din notun kichu shikha. Alhamdulillah, amar biye hoise dui bochor hoye, ei du bochor e jeta shikhlam seta holo communication chara shanti nai.

Ami ekbar freelancing er ekta boro project e fully busy chilaam. Raat e jhamela, client call, timezone mismatch, sob mile stress. Amar wife oita dekhe bolto je break nao, ek cup cha kheo, kichu time family te dao. Oi somoy ami bujhte partam na je or kotha koto important. Ekdin to cholei gelo je amar stress amar behaviour e chole ashche. Tokhon ami boshe seriously kotha bollam. Dekhsi je khali open kotha bollei ekta shanti eshe jaye. Mashallah, ei practice ekhono cholse, inshallah cholte thakbe.

Eksathe decision newao onek important. Amar wife ekta short course korte chailo recently, ami bolsi je tumi jodi nijer career e grow korte chao tahole ami puro support dibo. Family te sobai mile support dilam, ekhon o onek enjoy kortese. Biye mane dujon ekjon arekjoner growth e help korbo. Ekjon niche porle arekjon tulbe. Ekjon succeed korle arekjon celebrate korbe. Ei partnership feeling na thakle biye shukhi howa tough.

Ar eita boltei hobe, bhai ra, ekta healthy family life rakhte small gestures onek important. Fuchka khete niye jawa, ekbar Pathao diye favourite ice cream pathiye deya, ba shudhu bole dewa je ajke tumi onek sundor lagteso eita onek farak kore. Amar wife ekdin bollo je amar ekta choto compliment puro din tar mood improve kore dise. Eirokom choto choto jinisher upor biye tikke thake.

Finally, biye korar age ba biye porer jibon niye jara confusion e achen, tader jonno bolbo je biye jokhon korben, nijer expectations clear rakhben, partner er dike eksho percent trust diben, ar chhoto chhoto misunderstandings niye onek boro drama korben na. Life chhoto, stress already onek. Nijeder happy rakhai main. Inshallah jara biye korte chachchen, tader jibon valo jabe. Jara already biye korechen, tader jonno dua thaklo.

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Tanveer Krim

Bhai, biye porer je life balance er kotha bolsen ota niye aro details diley bhalo hoto, আসলে main challenge ta kon jagay lagse?

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নিশা রহমান

বিয়ের পর লাইফ ব্যালেন্স করা সত্যিই কঠিন, বিশেষ করে ফ্রিল্যান্সারদের জন্য কারণ কাজ আর পারিবারিক জীবনের মধ্যে সীমারেখা টানা মুশকিল হয়ে যায়।

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Nusrat Ahmad

হাহাহা ভাই ফ্রিল্যান্সার হইয়া বাসায় থাকেন আর বউয়ের সামনে "অফিসে ব্যস্ত" বলার স্কোপ নাই, এইটাই আসল চ্যালেঞ্জ! 😂

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রায়ান রায়

One sentence, Romanized Bangla, Bangladeshi style:

bhai ekdom thik bolsen, biye porer life balance kora asole challenge but shob shomoy patience r shomman thakle inshaAllah manage hoye jay.

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তানজিলা সুলতানা

হাহা ভাই, ফ্রিল্যান্সার হইলে তো ঘরেই থাকেন, বউয়ের নজরদারি থেকে পালাবেন কই! 😂