Bhai ra, ajkal prem biye niye poribarer problem onekei face kortese, ami o same situation er moddhe asi. Amar paribar ekta specific decision expect korse, kintu amar choice ta tara easily accept korte parse na. Kotha bolte giye dekhi shobai nijeder dike theke logic dicche, amar feelings ke beshi priority dite chacche na. Honestly bolte gele eta mentally onek pressure create kore, especially jokhon duita dike maintain korte hoy. Alhamdulillah bondhobir sathe relation stable ase, kintu poribarer tension e sob kisu complicated lage.
Ami chinta kortesi je time dite dite shob thik hoye jabe inshallah, kintu tokhon tokhon negative pressure mange na. Amar family chae ami tader plan follow kori, ar ami chae duita poribarer shathe shanti te biye korte pari. Ei niye onek bar bosa bosi cheshta korsilam, kintu kono clear decision astese na. Mama ra, apnara ki mone koren, ei type situation e patience maintain kora chara ar ki upay ase? Opinion dile valo lagto.
Aro ekta jinish lagse, prem biye niye Bangladesh e ekhono onek conservative mindset ase, especially amader moto semi-urban area like Rangpur e. Tai sometimes mone hoy pressure ta lifestyle er part hoye geche. Jodi keu same experience diye thaken, tahole share koren. Maybe ekjon ar ekjon ke support korlei situation better mone hobe inshallah. đ
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