Banglanet

Saurav Rahman
Saurav Rahman

Posted on

Prem biye niye poribarer chape pora ekhon kemon sambhalbo?

Bhai ra, ajkal prem biye niye poribarer problem onekei face kortese, ami o same situation er moddhe asi. Amar paribar ekta specific decision expect korse, kintu amar choice ta tara easily accept korte parse na. Kotha bolte giye dekhi shobai nijeder dike theke logic dicche, amar feelings ke beshi priority dite chacche na. Honestly bolte gele eta mentally onek pressure create kore, especially jokhon duita dike maintain korte hoy. Alhamdulillah bondhobir sathe relation stable ase, kintu poribarer tension e sob kisu complicated lage.

Ami chinta kortesi je time dite dite shob thik hoye jabe inshallah, kintu tokhon tokhon negative pressure mange na. Amar family chae ami tader plan follow kori, ar ami chae duita poribarer shathe shanti te biye korte pari. Ei niye onek bar bosa bosi cheshta korsilam, kintu kono clear decision astese na. Mama ra, apnara ki mone koren, ei type situation e patience maintain kora chara ar ki upay ase? Opinion dile valo lagto.

Aro ekta jinish lagse, prem biye niye Bangladesh e ekhono onek conservative mindset ase, especially amader moto semi-urban area like Rangpur e. Tai sometimes mone hoy pressure ta lifestyle er part hoye geche. Jodi keu same experience diye thaken, tahole share koren. Maybe ekjon ar ekjon ke support korlei situation better mone hobe inshallah. 🙏

Top comments (5)

Collapse
 
sojibbegum79 profile image
Sojib Begum

āφāĻŽāĻžāϰ āĻ…āĻ­āĻŋāĻœā§āĻžāϤāĻžāϝāĻŧ āĻ­āĻžāχ, āϧ⧀āϰ⧇ āφāϰ āĻļāĻžāĻ¨ā§āϤāĻ­āĻžāĻŦ⧇ āϏāĻŽāϝāĻŧ āύāĻŋāϝāĻŧ⧇ āĻ•āĻĨāĻž āĻŦāϞāϞ⧇ āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻŦāĻžāϰ āĻāĻ•āϟ⧁ āύāϰāĻŽ āĻšāϝāĻŧ, āφāϞāĻšāĻžāĻŽāĻĻ⧁āϞāĻŋāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āφāĻŽāĻŋ āĻļ⧇āώāĻŽā§‡āĻļ āϏāĻžāĻŽāϞ⧇ āύāĻŋāϤ⧇ āĻĒ⧇āϰ⧇āĻ›āĻŋāϞāĻžāĻŽāĨ¤ āχāύāĻļāĻžāφāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āφāĻĒāύāĻŋāĻ“ āĻĒāĻžāϰāĻŦ⧇āĨ¤

Collapse
 
nusrat_sultana profile image
āύ⧁āϏāϰāĻžāϤ āϏ⧁āϞāϤāĻžāύāĻž

āφāĻŽāĻžāϰ āĻ…āĻ­āĻŋāĻœā§āĻžāϤāĻžāϝāĻŧ āĻ­āĻžāχ, āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻŦāĻžāϰ āĻĒā§āϰāĻĨāĻŽā§‡ āĻŽāĻžāύāϤ⧇ āϚāĻžāϝāĻŧ āύāĻž āĻ•āĻŋāĻ¨ā§āϤ⧁ āĻļāĻžāĻ¨ā§āϤ āĻĨ⧇āϕ⧇ āϧ⧀āϰ⧇ āϧ⧀āϰ⧇ āĻŦā§‹āĻāĻžāϞ⧇ āχāύāĻļāĻžāφāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āϤāĻžāϰāĻž āĻāĻ• āϏāĻŽāϝāĻŧ āύāϰāĻŽ āĻšāϝāĻŧ⧇ āφāϏ⧇āĨ¤ āφāĻŽāĻŋāĻ“ āĻāĻ•āχ āϚāĻžāĻĒ⧇āϰ āĻŽāĻ§ā§āϝ⧇ āĻ›āĻŋāϞāĻžāĻŽ, āφāϞāĻšāĻžāĻŽāĻĻ⧁āϞāĻŋāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āϧ⧈āĻ°ā§āϝ āϧāϰ⧇āχ āϏāĻžāĻŽāĻžāϞ āĻĻāĻŋāϤ⧇ āĻĒ⧇āϰ⧇āĻ›āĻŋāϞāĻžāĻŽāĨ¤

Collapse
 
ppiparbheen56 profile image
Ppi Parbheen

āφāĻŽāĻžāϰ āĻ…āĻ­āĻŋāĻœā§āĻžāϤāĻžāϝāĻŧ āĻ­āĻžāχ, āϏāĻŽāϝāĻŧ āύāĻŋāϝāĻŧ⧇ āĻļāĻžāĻ¨ā§āϤāĻ­āĻžāĻŦ⧇ āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻŦāĻžāϰāϕ⧇ āĻŦā§‹āĻāĻžāϞ⧇ āĻ…āύ⧇āĻ• āϏāĻŽāϝāĻŧ āϤāĻžāϰāĻž āύāϰāĻŽ āĻšāϝāĻŧ, āχāύāĻļāĻžāφāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āϧ⧈āĻ°ā§āϝ āϧāϰāϞ⧇ āϏāĻŽāĻžāϧāĻžāύ āĻŦ⧇āϰ āĻšāĻŦ⧇āĨ¤ āφāĻŽāĻŋāĻ“ āĻĻ⧇āϖ⧇āĻ›āĻŋ āĻĒā§āϰāĻĨāĻŽā§‡ āϏāĻŦāĻžāχ āĻŦāĻŋāϰ⧋āϧāĻŋāϤāĻž āĻ•āϰāϞ⧇āĻ“ āĻĒāϰ⧇ āĻŽāĻžāύāĻŋāϝāĻŧ⧇ āύ⧇āϝāĻŧāĨ¤

Collapse
 
rajanchowdhury99 profile image
āϰāĻžāϝāĻŧāĻžāύ āϚ⧌āϧ⧁āϰ⧀

āĻ­āĻžāχ, āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻŦāĻžāϰ⧇āϰ āϏāĻžāĻĨ⧇ āĻ•āĻŋ āĻāĻ•āĻŦāĻžāϰ āĻŦāϏ⧇ āĻļāĻžāĻ¨ā§āϤāĻ­āĻžāĻŦ⧇ āĻ•āĻĨāĻž āĻŦāϞāĻžāϰ āĻšā§‡āĻˇā§āϟāĻž āĻ•āϰ⧇āϛ⧇āύ?

Collapse
 
nusrat_sultana profile image
āύ⧁āϏāϰāĻžāϤ āϏ⧁āϞāϤāĻžāύāĻž

āφāĻŽāĻŋāĻ“ āĻāĻ•āχ āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻ¸ā§āĻĨāĻŋāϤāĻŋāϤ⧇ āĻ›āĻŋāϞāĻžāĻŽ āĻ­āĻžāχ, āĻļ⧇āώāĻŽā§‡āĻļ āϧ⧈āĻ°ā§āϝ āϧāϰ⧇ āĻĒāϰāĻŋāĻŦāĻžāϰāϕ⧇ āĻŦā§‹āĻāĻžāϤ⧇ āĻĒ⧇āϰ⧇āĻ›āĻŋāϞāĻžāĻŽāĨ¤ āϏāĻŽāϝāĻŧ āĻĻāĻŋāύ, āχāύāĻļāĻžāφāĻ˛ā§āϞāĻžāĻš āϏāĻŦ āĻ āĻŋāĻ• āĻšāϝāĻŧ⧇ āϝāĻžāĻŦ⧇āĨ¤