Shustho relationship er jonno kichu real-life tips (prem-biye focus)

Chattogram Agrabad e varsity life e thakte thakte onek bondhu-bondhobir relationship upore kotha shune ekta jinis bujhi, strong relationship kono ekta din e hoye jay na, eta slowly grow korte hoy. Alhamdulillah, amar nijer kichu experience o ache ja theke onek lesson paichi. Ei post ta mainly tader jonno jara prem theke biye porjonto ekta stable relationship korte chay, ba at least healthy bonding maintain korte chay. 💛

Shobcheye important je jinis ta, seta holo clear communication. Varsity te class, assignment, club activities niye busy thaka normal, but tader majhe 10-15 minutes o jodi honest kotha bola jay, trust naturally build hoy. Amar ek friend er case e, se du joner busy schedule er karone dhore niyechilo je partner r interest komse. Kintu jokhon tara boshlo ar shanti te kotha holo, misunderstanding gula chole gelo. Inshallah, apnara o ei habit build korle relationship e on unnecessary tension kombe.

Second point holo respect. Bangladesh e onek boy-meye ekhon relationship e ashar shomoy mutual respect ke priority dey na. Kintu jodi apni truly longevity chaan, tahole ekjon ankore ke respect deya lagbe tar moto chinta, tar family, tar comfort zone sob e consider kore. Amar experience e dekhsilam, partner er feelings ke respect na dile choto choto issue tao boro conflict hoye jay. Ekta simple example, jodi apnar partner social media te public post pochondo na kore, seta niye argue na kore chara diben. Trust me bhai, respect relationship ke naturally secure kore.

Third, overexpectation avoid korar cheshta korun. Chattogram er amar ek junior meye friend er kache shunlam, sei cheleta prochur expectation rekhe relationship take pressured kore felt korto. Result holo bibhinno boyosho e stress, ar obosheshe tara dure hoye gelo. Relationship ke ekta chill, healthy space hishebe rakhun. Real life e shob din roshgulla thakbe na, kintu tolerance thakle relationship sustain kore.

Lastly, doa korte bhulben na. Ekjon manus perfect hobe na, relationship o perfect hobe na. Kintu jodi dua ar positive niyote rasta ta dhora hoy, inshallah bonding strong thakbe. Amar experience e alhamdulillah dekhsilam, stressfull semester eo jara Allah’r upor vorsa rakhe, ora relationship pressure bhalo handle korte pare. 😊

Hope ei tips gula apnader kaaj e lagbe. Jei relation e thakun, nijer peace ar self-respect ke prothom priority din. Inshallah, shustho relationship ekta baraka.