Shomporker kheyale rakhar jonno kisu tips - personal experience theke bolchi

Assalamualaikum bhai era, apnara kemon achen? Aaj ektu personal topic niye kotha bolte chai. Shomporko niye amader deshe khub ekta openly kotha hoy na, kintu ami mone kori ei bishoy ta niye alochona kora dorkar. Nijei koyekta relationship er modhye diye gechi, tai kichu shikhle achi je share korte chai apnader shathe.

Prothom kotha holo communication. Bhai, apni jotoi bhalobashun, jodi mon er kotha na bolen tahole shob shesh e giye jhogra hobe. Ami nijei ei bhul korsi - mone mone rakhtam, asha kortam je bujhe nibe. Kintu bhai, manush to mon pore na! Apnar partner ke clear kore bolen ki lagche, ki chai, ki problem. Inshallah dekben onek misunderstanding durr hoye jabe. Amader Bangladeshi culture e "lojja" er ekta boro factor ache, kintu apnar partner er shathe lojja thakle ki hobe bhai?

Dwitio bishoy holo respect ar trust. Ei duitay chara shomporko tike na. Ami dekhechi onek couple ke, baire sob thik kintu bhitore ekjon arekjon ke shondeho kore. Phone check kora, Facebook stalk kora - ei gulo shomporko noshto kore. Bhai, jodi trust na thake tahole ki laabh oi relationship e theke? Alhamdulillah ami shikhechi je partner ke space dite hobe. Protidin location share na korleo cholbe, har ghonta call na korleo cholbe.

Tritio jinish ami bolbo - compromise. Shomporko mane duijon manush er duita different personality ek shathe asha. Apni chaiben raat e baire khete jete, uni chaiben ghore ranna kore khete. Ei shob choto choto bishoy e compromise korte hobe duijon ke. Ami age khub stubborn chilam, nijeri moto cholte chaitam. Kintu bujhlam je relationship e "ami" na, "amra" bhabte hobe. Ei mindset change amake onek help koreche.

Shesh e bolbo, patience rakhen bhai. Shomporko overnight gojay na, time lage. Jhogra hobe, mone kashto paben, kintu shotti bhalobasha thakle shob overcome kora jay. Amader deshe onek time dekhi chele meye rush kore decision ney, biye korte chai. Kintu bhai, ek bochor duibochor time den, manush ke bujhen. Mashallah jara ei patience rakhe tader shomporko strong hoy. Apnader ki mone hoy? Comment e bolen apnader experience. 🤝