Assalamualaikum bhai era, apnara kemon achen? Ajke ekta important bishoy niye kotha bolte chai. Amader Bangladeshi society te paribarik somossa ta ekta boro reality, bishesh kore prem ebong biye er belay. Ami nijeo emon kichu experience korechi, tai vablam apnader sathe share kori. Hoyto karo kaje lagbe, inshallah.
Dekhen bhai, amader desh e baba ma ra shontan der biye er bepare onek involved thaken. Eta ekdike valo karon tara amader bhalo chan. Kintu problem hoy jokhon amra kono manush ke valobashi ar family accept kore na. Ami Dhaka te thaki, amar ek bondhu er sathe exactly ei rokom hoyechilo. She ekjon meye ke pasond korto, kintu tar family caste ba financial status niye objection tulto. Bechara onek suffer korlo, depression e chole gelo almost. Family pressure ta amader culture e eto strong je sometimes nijeke hariye felai.
Amar suggestion holo, apni jodi emon situation e thaken, tahole patience rakhen. Raga kore family er sathe jhogra korben na. Ami dekhechi onek case e patience ar respect diye baba ma ke convince kora jay. Apnar partner ke bujhan je somoy lagbe. Ekta important kotha holo, apni nijeo consider korun family ki bolche. Sometimes tara experience theke kotha bole, shob somoy wrong hoy na. Balance kora ta khub dorkar. Alhamdulillah amar bondhu shesh porjonto tar family ke bujhate perechilo, kintu ta 2 bochor laglo.
Aro ekta bishoy boli, communication ta key. Apnar family ke directly na bolte parle kono senior relative er help nin. Chacha, mama, ba baro apa ke request korun apnar hoye kotha bolte. Amader society te third party mediation ta onek kaje day. Ar ha, apni nijeo financially stable howar cheshta korun. Dekha jay onek family er objection ta actually security niye, tara chan je meye ba chele ta sukhe thakuk. Apni jokhon prove korben je apni responsible, tahole akta boro barrier shesh hoye jay.
Shesh e bolbo, bhai era, paribarik somossa mane relationship shesh na. Onek couple ei phase paar kore shundor jibon katachhe. Kintu kabhu family ke enemy mone korben na. Tara apnar nijeder lok. Patience, respect, ar proper planning diye inshallah shob thik hoye jabe. Karo jodi specific kono question thake, comment e janan. Amra shobai milei help korte pari. Bhalo thakben shobai.
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