Paribarik Chaper Majhe Biye Niye Dilemma

Bhai ra, ajke 19 September 2025 er moddhe boshe ami ekta jinish khub feel kortesi. Love marriage niye paribarik problem Bangladesh e ekhon o khub common, especially jara Dhaka te thaki kintu paribar holo district based traditional. Ami dhanmondi te thaki, BCS er jonno porashona kortesi, kintu er moddhei amar personal life ta jeno ekta alada stress create kore rekheche. Amar premika ekta private office e job kore, meye ta mashallah onek bhalo, calm, educated. Kintu amar paribar er dharana holo je love marriage hole naki relationship stable thake na. Ei mindset ta ami everyday fight kortesi.

Kichu din age amader barite ekta choto adda te kotha uthse je amar biye niye chinta kora lagbe. Ami jokhon bolsilam je amar ekjon ke pochhondo, tokhon sathe sathe pressure start. Amar ammu bolse, family compatibility dekhte hobe, logjon er kotha ase, ar jodi biye hoyo taratari, tahole BCS focus weak hoye jabe. Ami bujhai je ami kono rush korte chai na, inshallah porashonar focus thik rekhe biye niye plan korte chai, but tader mone hoy ami naki already confused hoye gechi. Ei jinis gula mentally ekta huge stress create kore.

Aro awkward hoy jokhon relatives ra call dey. Mama chacha ra bolte thake, bhai ekhon porashona priority dao, biye nile nijer freedom noshto hoye jabe. Ar premika er barite o pressure barse, tara bolse ami jodi clear decision na di, tahole relation ta unstable hoye jabe. Ami du dik thekei pressure pacchi, majhe majhe mone hoy ekbar e sob chepe dhore Pathao te beriye jai coffee khete just mind fresh korte. Ei Dhaka r life already heavy, tar upor relationship pressure o paribarik tension add hoye obostha aro tight.

Tobe ekta jinish bolte pari, communication chara kono relation sustain kore na. Ami premika ke bole disi je amra dujone mile situation handle korbo, paribar ke convince korte gele time lagbei. Ar amar porashona priority, BCS e focus rakhtei hobe. Sheo bolse je thik ase, she support dibe. Ei supportive mindset ta alhamdulillah amar jonno onek relief. Ami mone kori jara similar situation e achen, tara relationship r family duita kei respect kore step by step move koren. End of the day, biye ekta long term commitment, tai rush kore kono decision na neya e bhalo.

Ami jante chai bhai ra, apnader moddhe kew ki erokom paribarik pressure faced korse? Kivabe handle korsen? Feedback dile onek valo lagbe 🙂