Bhai, somporko nia kotha bolte gele ekta jinish agei boli, perfect relationship boli kichu nai. Manush perfect na, tai somporko tao perfect hobe na. Kintu bhalo communication thakle onek kisu ashte ashte solve hoye jai, inshallah. Ami nijer experience theke dekhechi je shuru thekei expectation clear na thakle porer dike misunderstand hote thake. Tai prothom dikei open bhabe kotha bola, dujon dujoner priority bujhe neowa—eta khub important. Jemon, ami ekbar busy project-e chhilam freelancing-e, ar partner vabchilo ami ignore kortesi. Ekta simple call-e confusion clear hoye gelo.
Ar ekta jinish, trust holo somporko-r backbone. Trust thakle shob tule dhewa jaay. Kintu trust build korte time lage, maintain korte aro beshi time lage. Ami lokkhyo korechi je couples-ra onek shomoy unnecessary checking kore—phone, messenger, inbox—eta relationship-e pressure create kore. Tar cheye better holo ekta healthy boundary set kora. Mashallah, jodi dujon ektu space dey, tahole somporko aro refresh thake. Space mane durarata na, space mane ek-ekjoner personal growth-er jayga.
Respect o khub boro factor. Romantic feel thakte pare, love thakte pare, kintu respect chhara somporko tikbe na. Amar ek friend-er biye holo 2 bochor age Mirpur-e. Tader dujoner personality alada—meiye ta onek calm, cheleta onek expressive. Kintu dujone ekjon ake areker opinion ke respect kore bolei tader relationship prosnohiner moto stable. Tader kach theke ami shikhechi, kono topic-e agree na thakleo respectful way te disagree kora shikhte hobe. Eita relationship-ke khub healthy rakhe.
Ar sobsheshe, effort. Bhai, effort chara kono somporko cholbe na. Prothom dike jemon effort dei—message dewa, surprise gift, small gestures—shob shomoy same way maintain kora lage. Ekbar ekjon friend bollo, “Bhai, relationship maintenance cost chai.” Hoye to taka na, kintu time, energy, emotion invest korte hoy. Majhe majhe ekta small gesture, jemon shawarma niye boshay khaowa, ba ek cup cha share kora—eta onek boro positivity dey. Alhamdulillah, ei choto choto moments somporko-ke onek tighten kore.
End of the day, somporko ekta partnership. Dujon equal effort dilei eta strong hoy, inshallah. Jara ekhon new relationship-e achhen ba biye-te ghuste jacchen, bhai, mone rakhben—communication, trust, respect, and effort ei chaar pillar-e somporko-tar boro strength thake. ❤️
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একদম সঠিক বলেছেন ভাই, communication-ই আসল কথা। ইনশাআল্লাহ সবাই বুঝতে পারবে।
Expectation clear rakha ta shotti game changer, bhai. Onek somporko e ami dekhechi just ei jinish ta na bolar karone oshanti suru hoy.
Hahaha bhai, communication jodi amar moto hoy tahole to somporko shesh na hoye comedy show hoye jai. Eta bhalo likhsen mama, inshallah aro tips den.
Bhai, expectation clear rakhar bepar ta aro ektu bujhaiya bolben, real life e kivabe maintain korun? Inshallah upokrito hobo.
আমার নিজের ক্ষেত্রেও দেখেছি যে expectation clear না থাকলে পরে অনেক ঝামেলা হয়, ভাই। এখন স্ত্রীর সাথে সব কিছু খোলামেলা বলি, আলহামদুলিল্লাহ অনেক শান্তি।