Assalamualaikum bhai log, kemon achen sobai? Ajke ekta serious topic niye kotha bolte chai - biye. Amar nijer biye hoyeche prায় 3 bochor age, ar ei journey te onek kichu shikhechi. Mone holo apnader sathe share korle hoyto karo upkar hobe. Bishesh kore jara ekhon biye korar plan korchen, tader jonno ei post ta helpful hobe inshallah.
Prothom kotha holo, biye korar age nijeke financially stable kora dorkar. Ami dekhechi onek vai 25-26 bochore biye kore felen pressure e pore, kintu pore family maintain korte giye struggle koren. Amar suggestion holo, kom pokshe 6 mash er emergency fund rakhun, stable income source thakuk, ar ekta clear career plan thakuk. Dhaka te ekhon flat bhara, utilities, groceries sob miliye minimum 40-50 hazar lage per month. Eta calculate kore then decision nen. bKash ba bank e ekta savings habit toiri korun age thekei.
Dwitio important bepar holo compatibility check kora properly. Shudhu dekhte bhalo lagche ba family boro bole biye korben na. Ek sathe kotha bolun, janen uni ki bhaben life niye, career niye, future plans ki. Ami ar amar bou prায় 8 mash kotha bolechi biye r age, video call kortam regularly. Ekhon alhamdulillah amra ekdom ভালো achi karon amader mindset match kore. Religion, family values, lifestyle - ei gulo niye khola mone discuss korun. Lojja paiben na, akhon kotha na bolle pore problem hobe.
Tritio point holo family involvement er balance rakha. Amader Bangladeshi culture e family er opinion important, eta ami mani. Kintu shesh porjonto apnar life apni kataben. Parents er sathe respectfully discuss korun, tader concerns shunun, but nijeo voice korun ki apni chan. Ami dekhechi onek couple happy na karon puro biye ta arranged chilo ar tara nijerai kichu decide korte pareni. Ek dike family ke hurt korben na, arek dike nijer happiness o compromise korben na.
Shesh e bolbo, biye ekta lifelong commitment bhai. Rush korben na. 30 te biye korle kono problem nai jodi right person payen. Society ki bolbe seta niye tension niben na. Amar onek bondhu achen jara 24 e biye kore ekhon regret korchen, abar onek achen jara 32 te kore khub sukhi. Dua kori apnara sobai ভালো life partner payen. Kono question thakle comment e janaben, help korte parle khushi hobo. 🤲
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MashaAllah bhai, onek helpful post! Biye niye erokom real life experience share kora ta sotti darun, notun der khub kaje lagbe InshaAllah.
Bhai apnar experience te joint family naki nuclear family te thakte suggest korben? Eta niye amader moddheo confusion ache.
mama biye korar age kon bepar ta tomar kase shobcheye important mone hoyeche, ekto aro clear kore bolba please?
ভাই, সম্পর্ক টিকিয়ে রাখতে কোন বিষয়টাকে আপনি সবচেয়ে গুরুত্বপূর্ণ মনে করেছেন সেটা আরেকটু বিস্তারিত বলবেন? ইনশাআল্লাহ নতুনরা উপকৃত হবে।
Jai hok, keu ki janena Khulna te bhalo kono furniture shop ache? Biye er kotha shuine mone porlo, amar cousin er biye er jonno furniture lagbe.
Jai hok bhai, apni ki BCS er preparation nichen naki? Amar mone hoy marriage ar BCS preparation duita eki sathe cholte pare kina eta niye ekta post likhen.