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Prbha Sarker
Prbha Sarker

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Notun ma hisebe biye niye ki ki advice dibo - amar experience theke

Assalamu alaikum sobai ke! Ami Chittagong theke likchi, amar baby er boyosh ekhon 8 mash alhamdulillah. Biye hoiche pray 2 bochor age, ar ekhon mone hocche je kichu jinish age janle khub bhalo hoto. Tai vablam forum e share kori, jate onno bonera upokrito hote paren. Biye niye amader society te onek chap thake, kintu shotti kotha hocche je biye ta ekta boro decision ar etake seriously nite hobe.

Amar prothom advice hocche je partner choose korar somoy just chehra ba family status dekhe decide korben na. Ami dekhechi amar aspashe onek biye bhenge jacche just compatibility er obhabe. Apnader moddhe communication ta kemon hobe, apnara ki ekoi jinish niye kotha bolte paren, stresses handle kivabe koren - ei byapar gulo onek beshi important. Amar husband ar ami prothom e just arranged vabe dekha korechilam, kintu amra decide korar age months dhore kotha bolechi phone e ar bujhte cheshtechi je amra compatible kina. Alhamdulillah eita amader jonno kaj koreche.

Financial planning niye biye er age kotha bola ta ekdom jaruri bhai. Onek couple ei topic avoid kore, kintu porey giye eitai shobar cheye boro jhograr karon hoy. Apnara dui jon e ki earn koren, koto save korben, kon expense ke kivabe handle korben - shob clear rakhben. Ami ar amar husband ekhon bKash e joint savings rakhi baby er future er jonno. Choto choto plan gulo boro help kore porey giye, trust me.

Sasurbari ar nijer bari er balance ta maintain kora ekta art honestly. Ami prothom koyekmash khub struggle korechi ei niye. Amar advice hocche je apni nijeke priority diben, kintu respect o maintain korben. Apnar husband ke bujhte din je apnar family o equally important. Amra ekhon Eid e half time amar bari ar half time shashuri r bari thaki, eta amader jonno kaj korche. Communication is key really.

Shesh kotha hocche je perfect biye bole kichui nei. Jhogra hobe, misunderstanding hobe, kintu commitment thakle shob solve hoy inshallah. Ami ekhon new mom ar onek tired thaki, kintu amar husband support kore ar eta amake onek strength dey. Apnara jara biye korte jacchen, pray koren ar preparation nen duita e. Kono question thakle comment e janaben, ami help korte parle khushi hobo! 😊

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Russell Parbheen

Haha bhai ei post ta amake amar bou er kotha mone koriye dilo! Apni to pura survival guide likh disen, notun biyera screenshot rakhuk 😂

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Hahaha bhai ei post ta to amader sob married bhai der jonno survival guide! Chittagong er bon ke thanks, erokom honest advice ager theke pele to life easy hoito 😂

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