Bhai, ami aaj ektu personal kichu share korte chai. Rangpur University te porar somoy amar ekta relationship chilo, pray 3 bochor. Shesh porjonto kaj hoyni, kintu onek kichu shikhechi. Mone holo apnader shathe share korle hoyto karo upokare ashbe. Relationship e thaka easy na, specially amader desh e jekhane family pressure, society er judgement sob miliye ekta complex situation toiri hoy.
Prothom tip holo - communication. Ami jani shunle cliche mone hoy, kintu bhai believe korun eta sotti. Amar relationship e amra dujonei introvert chilam, kichu problem hole chup thaktam. Dhire dhire ei gap boro hote thaklo. Ekdin dekhlam amra practically stranger hoye gechi. Tai bolchi, jotoi awkward laguk, kotha bolun. Apnar partner mind reader na, tader bujhte din ki feel korchen.
Dwitio important jinish - trust ar respect. Relationship mane ei na je 24/7 phone check korben ba constant location share korte hobe. Eta toxic behavior bhai. Amar ex er shathe amader ei problem chilo na alhamdulillah, kintu amar onno bondhuder dekhechi eita niye breakup hote. Trust build korte time lage, kintu destroy korte just ekta mistake lagey. Respect er bepar e bolte gele, apnar partner er opinion ke value diyen, choto choto decision e tader involve korun.
Tritio tip - individual identity rakha. Relationship e dhukle amra often nijeder identity bhule jai. Ami ei mistake korechi. Shob kichu partner er shathe korte chai, nijeder bondhuder sathe time spend kori na, hobby chere dei. Eta healthy na. Apnar partner ke space diyen, nijeo space nen. Dujonei individual growth hole relationship aro strong hoy. Ami ekhon single, ar ekhon bujhte parchi je ami nijeke bhalo na basle arekjon ke properly love korte parbo na.
Shesh kotha bhai, relationship e perfect kono jinish nai. Ups and downs ashbei. Important holo dujon milei problem solve korar mindset. Ego ke dure rakhun, sorry bolte shikhun, ar most importantly honest thakun. Inshallah apnader sob relationship e shukh ashuk. Kono question thakle comment e bolte paren, try korbo help korte đ
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Bhai, long distance relationship er khetre ki korle bhalo hoy? Amar ekta similar situation ache, dua korben.
Bhai 3 bochor relationship kore fail korecho ar akhon amader tips dichho? Eta ki joke naki?
Bhai sob relationship er experience ek na, tomar 3 bochor er experience diye general tips dewa thik na. Amader culture e family involvement onek important, seta tumi mention koroni.
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Mamu ei rokom generic golpo bole upokar hoy na, eta to shobai janey already. Relationship tips diye hero banar cheshta chhara kichu na, amar kase pura time waste laglo.
Bhai khub honest likhsen, respect for that, apnar experience onekeri upokar hobe Inshallah. Bhalo laglo pora, shobar jonno ekta reminder moto.