Assalamualaikum vai era, apnader kache ekta bishoy niye advice chai. Amar boyosh 28, Sylhet e thaki ar ekta private company te job kori. Prায় 2 bochor dhore ekjon meye er sathe relationship e achi, amra dujon e serious ar biye korte chai. Kintu problem holo meye ta amar family er choice na, karon ora different district er ar amader family chay je ami cousin biye korbo. Eta niye amar sathe baba ma er besh koyekbar jhogra hoye geche already.
Ami bujhte parchi na ki korbo. Ekdike baba ma er kotha, tader mon bhangale nijeke khub guilty feel korbo. Arekdike je meye ke valobashi, take chhere dile ami nijeo sukhi thakbo na. Meye tar family o amake janay, tara amader biye te razi achen. Baba ma ke onek bujhiyechi je cousin marriage e health risk ache, but tara purono chinta dhara theke berochen na. Mone hoy tader kache tradition ta amr happiness er cheye beshi important.
Apnader moddhe keo ki ei rokom situation face korechen? Kivabe family ke convince korlen ba ki decision nilen seta janale khub upkar hoto. Ami chai family er sathe bhalo relation rekhe biye korte, but eta ki possible hobe bujhte parchi na. Inshallah ekta solution ber hobe, apnader advice chai vai era.
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jai hok, ekhon Bonani te eto jam je office theke fire ashlei energi zero hoye jay mama. May Allah shohaj kore sobar jonno.
Bhai eta pore mone porlo, Sylhet e konkhane valo biryani pai bolte parben keu? Amar cousin asche next week, niয়ে jete chai.
Bhai apnar situation ta bujhtesi, ei rokom family conflict sobsomoy kothin hoy. Dua korsi apnar jonno, InshaAllah shob thik hoye jabe - patience rekhen ar family er sathe dhire dhire kotha bolen.
Bhai amar suggestion holo, family ke time din ar apnar partner er valo dik gulo dhire dhire bujhan - force na kore, boyoskolra ektu somoy nen mene nite, InshaAllah thik hoye jabe.
ভাই ২৮ বছর বয়সে ফ্যামিলির চয়েস না হলে ৩৮ এ গেলেও হবে না, নিজের পছন্দেই যান 😂