bhai ra, aajke 23 January 2025 e ekhane ekta issue niye likhte boshsi. Amar office er kajer shathe shathe khub shomoy paribarik tension niye matha ghure. Bishesh kore prem o biye niye jodi paribar fully support na dey, tokhon manoshik stress khub bere jay. Ami khudai Khulna theke, ekhaner onek manus er moto amader bariteo shomoy shomoy prem biye niye alochona hoy, kintu sob somoy shomorthon paoya jay na. Ei bishoy niye ekta open discussion korte chai, jate amra sobai ekjon arekjon er kotha theke kichu shikhte pari inshallah.
Ami je meyetar shathe kisu bochor dhore relationship e achi, tar shathe biye korte chai. Mashaallah meyeta bhalo, porashona shesh kore ekta bhalo job o korche. Kintu amar paribar er ek ek jon er ek ek kotha. Keu bole soche bhabbe biye korte hole taka, shompotti, shomajer chokh etogulo mile dekhte hobe. Kintu amar mone hoy shomman, bhalobasha, manoshik shomjhotar cheye onno kichu gurutto pawa uchit na. Ekhon amar ma abba ke bojhano onek tough lagche. Tara mone kore, prem kore biye korle paribarik rishta kharap hoye jete pare. Ami jani ora bhalo chai, kintu tar poro nijer ichha bujhanor ekta ongsho thake.
Kichudin age ekta jamaider adda te giye chhilam. Okhaner ek chacha bollo je ajkal prem biye naki risky. Kintu ami bolam, bhai risk sob shomoy relationship e thake, jodi paribar support na kore tahole sheita aro barche. Amar barir moddheo communication gap ache, seta dur korte chai. Ami chesta kortesi shantir shathe, chilo chaito, kono jhogra chara, ma abba ke bojhate je meyetar moddhe kono negative factor nai. Alhamdulillah, meyetar diker poribar onek open minded. Tara chay amra bhalo thaki.
Ekhon amar tension holo, jodi paribar soft na hoy, tahole ki korbo. Ami to chesta kortesi sobai ke niye ekshathe cholte. Life e biye ekdin hobei, kintu chaitechi jate duparibar er moddhe ekta bhalo shomparko thake. Amar request holo, jara ekhane forum e achhen, apnara jara ei rokom paribarik shomoshay porchen ba porchen, tara kichu advice dile bhalo hoy. Kibhabe paribar ke slowly convince korte pari, seta niye tips hole share korun. Inshallah sobar jonne duwa roilo je je keo prem biye ba arranged biye, je jai koruk, shanti o bhalobasha peyelen. đ
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ami o same situation e chilam bhai, family accept korte 2 bochor lagse but patience rakhlam, alhamdulillah shob thik hoise