Biye planning niye kisu kotha - 40 bochor er experience theke

Assalamu Alaikum sobai ke. Ami Nasirabad, Chittagong e thaki, ar amar boyosh ekhon 65 bochor. Jibone onek biye dekhechi - nijer chele meyeder, naati naatni der, ar atriya swajan der. Tai bhablam apnader sathe kisu tips share kori ja ami experience theke shikhechi. Inshallah kaje lagbe.

Prothom kotha holo budget thik kora. Amar dekha motey, biye te sobcheye boro bhul holo capacity er baire khoroch kora. Ami 30 bochor age nijer cheler biye te ei bhul korechilem, tarpor onek din financial pressure e chilem. Tai apnader bolchi, prothome boshi ar calculate korun exactly koto taka ache. Biye er jonno loan neya thik na bhai, eta amar personal opinion. Community center ba bari te biye korle onek taka bachano jay. Gulshan ba Dhanmondi er boro venue na holeo, bhalobashar biye te kono kom thake na.

Dwitio important bishoy holo time management. Biye er 6 mash age thekei planning shuru kora uchit. Photographer book kora, catering thik kora, dress ar jewelry - sob kisu agei finalize korun. Ami dekhechi onek poribar last minute e panic kore ar tarpor quality compromise hoy. Ekta notebook ba mobile e notes rakhun - ki ki baki ache, ki ki hoye geche. Amar bou ekhono bole, "apni shudhu tension niten, planning ami kortam" - eta shotti kotha, teamwork dorkar.

Tritio tip holo guest list niye realistic thaka. Bangladeshi culture e "lok ke ki bolbe" eta boro factor, ami jani. Kintu 500 lok invite kore tarpor 200 lok er khabar dile, eta beshi embarrassing. Better holo 300 lok invite kore proper hospitality kora. Ilish ar biryani dite hobe, kintu quantity ar quality duita e important. Chittagong e amra mezban kori, eta onek cost effective ar taste o bhalo.

Sesh kotha, biye holo dui poribar er bondhon - shudhu dui jon er na. Tai both side er family ke involve rakhun decision making e. Alhamdulillah amar chele meyer biye te amra dui poribar mile planning korechilem, ar ekhono amader shomporko khub bhalo. Boro boro venue ar expensive dress er cheye, mutual respect ar understanding beshi dorkar. Amar naati er biye hobe inshaAllah coming year e, ar ami same advice diyechi take o. Apnara o ei tips follow korun, bhalo lagbe.