Paribarik Chape Prem Biye Niye Bibhinno Dilemmas

Bhai ra, ajke ekta onek personal topic niye ekta detail post dite chai. Date ta 21 April 2025, ar ekhon exam season er stress er sathe sathe paribarik pressure o tukro tukro kore khawa shuru korse. Ami Rajshahi city te thaki, HSC level e pori, ar kichu din dhore prem biye niye barir moddhei ekta awkward obostha cholse. Honestly bolte gele, ei boyos e amra jeta face kori, ota mainly expectation er sathe reality er mismatch. Paribar chay ekta jinis, ar amader mon chay arekta. Ei conflict ta sobar kasei onek familiar, I guess.

Ami nijer experience theke boltesi, ekjon ke pochonder bepare barir sathe kotha bolta gele jhamela hoye jay. Amar parents kharap na, alhamdulillah boro manush. Kintu prem niye tara akhon o onek conservative dhorar. Tara mone kore age study finish kore stable job nite hobe, tarpor biyeer kotha. Eta ekdike thik, kintu onek shomoy mone hoy, amader feelings er value o to thaka uchit. Kotha bollei tension, chacha mama rao opinion dite ashse, jeta abar aro complex situation banae.

Ekbar mone ache, ekta simple topic niye amra dinner table e discuss kortesilam, shekhane ami bolsilam je ekjon friend er biye love marriage er maddhome hoye jachhe. Bas, oi kotha thekei amar prem niye dhorai dhorai question. Amar kase eta onek embarrassing lagse, karon ami proshno er perfect answer dite parinai. Kintu shathe shathe bujhlam je amader generation ar older generation er moddhe communication gap onek beshi. Amra feelings openly express korte chai, tara secure future niye chinta kore. Duita viewpoint e aslai kono conflict thakar kotha na, but thake.

Ajkal social media teo dekhi ekta tension, je love marriage hoile naki divorce rate beshi, arranged hoile best. Amar mathay ekta confusion. Actually marriage jokhon shuru hoy, seta kon model e holo ta sese etota important na. Important holo dujon er mindset, support, trust, ar family understanding. Inshallah jodi paribar ekto open minded hoy, ar amrao responsible vabe decision nei, tahole onek problem avoid kora possible. Ei karone ami chesta kortesi barir sathe peacefully communicate korte. Pray kori sobar jonne jeno e rokom paribarik pressure kom thake, ar sobar biye somporko happy hoy, mashallah.

Tomra keu ki er moto situation face korso? Rajshahi te, ba onno jayga te? Share korte paro bhai ra. Maybe ekjoner experience onno jon ke help korte pare. 😊