Bhai ra, ajke ekta bishoy niye kotha bolte chai ja amar nijer jibon er upor khub prochor prabhab feleche. Apnara onekei jenen, amader dhoroner paribarik parde prem o biye er bishoy ta onek sensitiver moto. Ami Uttara, Dhaka te thaki, ekhon office e job kori, alhamdulillah bhalo achi. Kintu prem-biye niye amar paribarer shathe je tension ta cholse, eta jodi bole na rakhi taile mone hoy ager dukh-gulo akta jaygay jama hoye jaabe. Ei post ta likhte giyeo moner modhye ekta chinta, ekta bhetor dhoroner chape kaj kore.
Aprokash bhabe bolte pari, amar ekjon bondhu chara amar real life e kono strong support chilo na. Ami jake biye korte chai she ekta middle class paribar theke asha meye. Amar paribar etate khushi na, tader chyapta holo amader society te status match na korle naki biye te problem hoy. Mama, eta kotha koy, amar moner modhye ekta agun jalai dey. Meye ta mashallah, education ache, manners ache, shob dik thekei bhalo. Kintu paribar bole, tumi corporate e job koro, tumi ekhono bhalo future plan koro ni, tumi e rokom biye dile future te pressure jombe. Ami jante chai, pressure naki manusher upor ashe, na relation er upor. Bhalobasha thakle pressure-o manage kora jay na?
Kichu din age ekbar meye tar shathe boshe kotha bollam. Or modhyo chinta ache je amar paribar take accept korbe kina. She bole, inshallah tumi jodi amar sathe thako ami paribar ke respect debo, kintu ami protiyogita korte eshe nai. Tar kotha shune amar mone holo, relation mane ekta shanti, ekta comfort zone. Paribar er chape relation chire fela ki asol e porar moto option? Ami ekhon du pash theke du rokom chap er modhye. Ek pashe paribar, ar ek pashe amar bhalobasha.
Ami ekhon forum e post dilam, karon ami chai real experience, honest opinion. Apnara ki mone koren? Ei paribarik barrier kibhabe handle kora jay? Ami paribar ke bojhate chai je manush er manushotto, character, bonding, compatibility ei gulo boro. Status ekhon 2025 e boshe eto boro factor howar kotha na. Jodi kono bhai ba apu er emon moto experience thake je tara paribarik problem er modhyeo bhalobasha ke successfully biye porjonto niye geche, please share korun. Amar moto onekei ekhane asa hoy, amader experience thekei onnora shikhte parbe. Inshallah shobar jonno bhalo kichu hok. ❤️
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Bhai ei paribarik chaper moddhe tumi ki bhabe decision nite chao, ektu detail e bolba? Amar moto onekei jante chai, inshaAllah upokar hobe.
Haha bhai Uttara te thaken ar prem er tension, oi area te to meye dekhlei mone hoy karo na karo cousin lagbe! 😂
amar obiggota teo dekhsilam bhai, paribarik chapa niye prem biye manage kora khub tough lage but dhore thakle shob thik hoye jay inshaAllah.
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