Bhai ra, ajke ekta onek common kintu sensitive topic niye kotha bolbo. Prem biye niye paribarik chinta ekhon Bangladesh e onek student er jibon e daily stress hoye geche. Khulna teo ei rokom case prai dekha jay. Ami nijer experience theke bolchi, jodi paribar er proti respect thake ar nijeder moddheo bhalobasha thake, taile oshanti komanor rasta chinta kora jay inshallah. Ei post ta toh fakta advice, ja tomar nijer situation e adjust kore nite parba.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Onk shomoy amra bhoy peye prem er kotha paribar ke openly bolte chai na. Amar ek close friend er khetreo eta hoyechilo. Se SSC sesher por theke ek meyer sathe relationship e chilo, kintu paribar janle ki hobe ei chinta te mind always heavy thakto. Finally se tar maa ke sob bapar shantovabe bole, maa first e shocked hoileo porer dike meyer family background jante chay. Ei jinis ta amake shikhache je paribar ke slowly and respectfully involve kora bhalo. Darate hoy shantovabe, karon parents ra generally tomar bhalo chaie, jodio tar expression thik na-o hote pare.
Porer jinis holo expectations manage kora. Bangladesh e, especially ekhono, paribar often expect kore je biye hobe same religion, same social background, ba relative er cheler sathe. Tumi jodi nijer relation take serious mone koro, tahole partner er sathei prothome clear koro je tomra paribar er shathe kibhabe introduce korbe. Amar experience e, jodi dui jon e ek page e thako, taile confidence growth pay. Ar moner moddhe faka bhoy dhore rakhar theke open plan rakha always better. Mindset thik rakhle, tension-o kom thakbe alhamdulillah.
Ar ekta important point holo take time. Haatat kore prem er kotha bolle onek paribar upset hoye jay. Tumi cheshta koro tader perspective bujhte. Tader generation e prem biye chinta often ekto risky mone hoy. Tai ekdom fight na kore, tarpor jodi possible hoy, tader ke dheere dhire positive sign dekhano, partner er bhalo behaviour mention kora, porashuna ba future plan somporke bolle tara ekto soft hoy. Amar ek cousin er khetre eta kaj dise, jeikhane tar father shuru te against chilo, kintu dhire dhire tar honesty dekhe approve kore.
Last e eto bolbo, decision tarai nibe jara biye korbe, kintu paribar ke completely ignore korleo future te problem hoy. Tomra jodi respect er sathe maintain koro ar effort deya chalu rakho, tahole inshallah situation ekdin soft hoye jabe. Dowa kori jeno tomader jibon e shanti ashe 😊
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