Ajke 30 May 2025 er din, mamara onekei biye niye chinta korte thaken, special kore amader age group er HSC ba SSC porua ra. Ami ekhane khub honestly kichu biye related poramorsho dite chai, jeita amar nijer experience, family er experience, ar ashe-pashe Khulna te dekhsi tar upor base kore. Inshallah jodi kono bhai ba apu er kaaj e lage taile khushi hobo.
Prothom kotha holo, biye ke ekta race hishebe dekhben na. Amader society te shobai bole "biye korle shob thik hoye jabe", kintu real life e dekha jay je biye shuru matro ekta partnership. Duijoner mindset stable na thakle, career ekto set na thakle, ba family expectation mismatch thakle porer time e pressure barte thake. Amar ek bondhu Khulna University te porte porte tar family pressure e biye kore felechilo, pore career ar study balance korte giye onek mental stress e pore. Tai ami bolbo, biye taratari korar cheye proper preparation e beshi focus din.
Second important point holo communication. Eita mone rakhen, prem thaka mane biye smoothly cholbe eita kono guarantee na. Daily choto choto kotha niye misunderstanding howa, family involvement, shomoy management e jhamela—eishob real life e chole. Ekjon arekter shathe khola kotha bolte parlei most problem solve hoye jay. Amar ek cousin er biye 2023 e hoisilo, tara duijon shobar shathe nice behave kore, namaz porbe porbe mishe boshse, choto choto decision jointly ney—Mashallah tader life smoothly cholche.
Third point holo financial planning. Bangladesh e biye mane onek festival type khoroch, jeta onek family ke pressure e phele dey. Amar personal suggestion holo, jodi kono bhai biye korte chay, tahole ekta basic income source thaka bhalo. Family er upor pressure kombe, ar nijera decision nite parben. Ekdom luxury lagbe na, sudhu stable footing hoile enough. Ajkal bKash, Pathao, online freelancing, local business—anek option chole asche.
Lastly, biye korben Allah er ridar jonno, manush er pressure e na. Duijon ekjon arekter upor trust rekhe, lifestyle, deen-duniya balance kore jodi cholen, tahole biye asol meaning ta upbhog korte parben. Ar chinta koren na, apnar manush ta Allah shomoy moto diye den, ekhon na pele pore Inshallah paben.
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