Biye niye ammar kisu kotha - jara confuse tader jonno

Assalamualaikum bhai era, kemon achen sobai? Aaj ektu personal bishoy niye likhte chai. Ami Rangpur theke, age 28, alhamdulillah ekta bhalo multinational company te job kori. Biye niye family theke pressure ashche already 2 bochor dhore. Kintu ami nijeo confused chilam, ki korbo, kobe korbo, kake korbo. Toh amar experience share korte chai, jate karo upkar holeo hote pare.

Dekhen bhai, amader society te biye mane holo family decision, kintu ami mone kori ei decision e nijeke priority dite hobe. Ami prothome baba ma er kotha shune arranged biye te raji hoye geslam. Tarpor 4-5 ta patro dekhlam, kintu kono connection feel hoini. Ekjon meye ke pasondo korsilam, kintu tar family amader financial condition niye satisfied na. Eta shune khub kharap laglo, mone holo ami ekta product, kine nite esheche. Sei experience theke shikhlam - jodi mone na hoy, jor kore korben na.

Tarpor office e ek colleague er shathe kotha barte barte bhalo laglo. Amra prothome friends chilam, tarpor bujhlam amader values, life goals shob match kore. Family ke janalam, tara prothome ektu hesitate korlo karon meye ta different district er. Kintu ami firmly bolli - ami eke biye korte chai. Alhamdulillah, parents bujhlen. Last month engagement holo, inshallah ei bochor er modhye biye. Bhai era, point holo - patience rakhte hobe ar nijeke jante hobe.

Rangpur e theke bujheci, amader culture e rush kora hoy biye niye. "Boyosh hoye jachhe", "lok ki bolbe" - ei shob kotha shunben, kintu nijeke time din. Financial stability important, mental readiness o important. Ami dekhechi onek bhai 24-25 e biye kore pore regret kore. Abar onek 32-33 teo single theke happy ache na. Balance ta nijeke bujhte hobe.

Shesh kotha bolte chai - biye ekta lifetime commitment. Facebook e dekhen sob couple happy, kintu real life e compromise, understanding, respect lagbe. Partner choose korar shomoy looks er cheye values dekhen, family background er cheye manush ta kemon sheta dekhen. Inshallah apnader sob bhai bon er jonno duya kori, Allah apnader sabke bhalo life partner din. Kono question thakle comment e janan, try korbo help korte. Bhalo thakben sobai! 🤲