Assalamu alaikum bhai ra, ajke ekta bishoy niye apnader kache poramorsho chai. Ami ekjon expat, asli Khulna r lok, ekhon bahire thaki job er jonno. Ghotok er maddhome ekhane Bangladesh e kichu proposal ashche, kintu honestly bolte gele bujhte parchi na kon dike focus kora uchit. Shobai bole je biye holo somman, drito shiddhanto na nite, tai mone holo forum e ekto kotha boli. Apnara jara already biye korechen, apnader experience jante iccha holo.
Ami chai jeno biye ta sudhu social pressure e na hoy, barong dujon er mindset match kore. Especially long distance thakle shurute ki ki challenge face korte hoy seta jante chai. Ekhon Bangladesh e shob kisu onek fast pace e cholche, relationship o tar baire na, tai stable communication r expectation management khub important bole mone hoy. Inshallah jodi thik manush ta mile, tahole life onek shundor hote pare. Apnara ki think koren bhai, ki dike chokh rakha uchit?
Ar ekta issue holo family expectations. Amader barite ekdom traditional mindset, r amake bole family first dekhte. Ami respect kori, kintu ekhon kar generation e partner er shathe mutual understanding tao, alhamdulillah, onek important. Toh ei duita balance kora niye practical tips thakle please share korun. Apnader real life onubhob amar jonne onek upokari hobe inshAllah. đ
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bhai ami ekhane ekmot noi, sob shomoy ghotok er proposal follow korlei bhalo hoy na, amar experience e nijer research na korle poroborti te problem hoy.
Hahaha mama biye niye oto tension nao, prothome dekh je prosposal ta dekle buk dhor dhor kore nache kina, baaki sobi cholbe InshaAllah đđ
Hahaha bhai, biye niye oto chinta korle matha garam hoye jabe, age ek cup cha khaite boshen mama. Proposal gulo porer bepar, shukno mukhe decision nile sesh injshaAllah.