Ei mamader, amar ekta jhamela cholse niyom moto. Ami ekjon university student, Sylhet e thaki, ar ekjon meyer sathe amar relation choltese prai dui bochor. Kintu paribar theke ekhon prochur pressure ashtese biye niye, kintu tara amader relation ta accept korte chacche na. Amar maa bolse ami ekhon porashona sesh kore job stable korar porei shob bhebe dekhte, kintu baba onek strict. Ei obosthai nijer feelings, paribarer iccha ar future plan ki bhabe balance korbo bujhte partesi na.
Onno dike, oi meyetao tension e ache, bole je prochur uncertainty cholse. Uni chay je ami tar sathe open thaki ar shob kotha clear kori, kintu paribarer chape onek shomoy matha ghure jay. Birokter bishoy holo amader dujoner paribarer moddhe mentality match kore na, ekta onek conservative, arekta relatively open. Tobe ami chesta kortesi shobai ke respect diye peacefully kotha bole samadhan korte. Inshallah jodi dujoner mon bhalo thake, ekdin na ekdin upay hoyei jabe.
Tomra ki kono similar experience face korso bhai? Kivabe paribar ar prem duita ke ek sathe maintain korle jhamela kom hoy? Advice dile upokar hobe. đ
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meyer family theke kono response ache naki? tara ki bolse ei bepare?
jai hok, ajke raat e duty seshe bari gele mamader sathe ek cup cha khawar plan ase, dua rakhben bhai.
amar kacheo ekbar erokom obostha ashchilo mamai, mohammadpur e thakte thakte paribarer pressure handle kora khub tough chilo but dhore rekhechilam relation ta, inshAllah tumi-o upay paiba.
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Bhai ami tomar jayga te chillam ekdom, probashi howar por bujhlam family ke time dite hoy. Amaro 3 bochor lagchilo family ke convince korte, patience rakho inshallah hobe.
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bhai tomar meyer family ki jane tumader relation er kotha?
Bhai amar experience theke bolchi, paribar ke time den ar patience rakhen. Apni age study shesh koren, career stable koren - tahole family automatically convince hobe, InshaAllah.