Biye niye baba mar sathe misil hocche na, ki korbo bujhte parchi na

Assalamu alaikum bhaira, apnader kache ekta bishoy niye share korte chaichi. Amar boyosh 27, Sylhet e choto ekta krishi farm ache, alhamdulillah income o mota moti thik ache. Kintu problem holo biye niye. Ami nije ekjon meyeke pochondo kori, amra 2 bochor dhore kotha bolchi, meye o farming background er, amader family value o same. Kintu baba ma completely against karon tara onno jaygay rishta thik kore rekheche. Ami bujhiye bolechhi, kanna korechi, kono kaj hoy nai. Baba bole "tui amader kotha shunbi na to amra toke chini na." Ma chup kore thaken kintu baba r sathe achen. Ekhon ami completely stuck, na pari family ke hurt korte, na pari meye take chhere dite. Apnara jara similar situation e chillen, kivabe solve korlen? Inshallah kono ekta rasta ber hobe, dua korben bhaira.