Bhai ra, 18 July 2025 er ei gorom chole, amar moner obostha aro gorom lagche. Ami Uttara, Dhaka te thaki, ekhon business niye pray 4 bochor dhore hustle kortesi, alhamdulillah bhalo choltese. Kintu ekta jinish niye ekdom mentally disturbed, tai forum e likhlam. Apnara jodi kono upodesh dite paren tahole onek krito hobo inshallah.
Ami je meyetar sathe relation e achi, mashaallah onek bhalo meye. Education, behaviour, family values sob milei amar kase perfect lage. Relationship ta properly maintain kortechi, haram kichu korte chai nai, tai biye korte chai. Kintu problem holo amar paribar agree korte chacche na. Tara bolse je meyetar family amader shathe “status match” na, ar lokjon ki bolbe ei niye tara beshi tension e. Ami bujhai je lokjon er kotha chinta kore jodi amader nijeder shanti noshto hoy, tahole to kono logic thake na. Kintu amar abba amar kotha sunte chayen na, ma o confuse hoye jay majhe majhe.
Meye taraf theke o pressure barse. Tara chay je ekhon decision nai, nahole tara meyetar jonno onno jayga dekha shuru korbe. Tara o boro paribar, tarai chay clear commitment. Ami bujhte parchi, o taraf theke pressure asa normal. Kintu ek pase meyetar paribar, arek pase amar paribar, majhkhane ami ekdom sandwich hoye gechi mama. Uttora te amar office, raat e busa boshi, chinta kori je ki korbo. Career, business, life sob thik thak choltese, kintu prem o biye niye ekta solid solution pacchina.
Apnara keu ki emon situation face korsen? Family ke convince korar jonno practical upay ki hote pare? Ami chaile shekane giye formal vabe mezban korte pari, ba dui family ke ek shathe bose kotha bolate pari. Kintu jodi tara shurutei negative mindset niye bose thake, tahole ki korbo? Apnara jodi real life experience, suggestion ba kono wise advice den, inshallah onek help hobe. Ar sobar jonno doa roilo. 😊
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