Assalamualaikum bhai log, kemon achen sobai? Aaj ektu serious topic niye kotha bolbo - relationship tips niye. Ami nijeo Mohammadpur e thaki, ar last 7 bochor dhore ekta successful relationship e achi, alhamdulillah. Tai bhablam nijer experience theke kichu kotha share kori, hoyto karo kaje lagbe.
Prothom kotha holo communication. Bhai, eta sob cheye important jinish. Apnara jodi partner er sathe properly kotha na bolen, sob miscommunication theke jhogra hobe. Ami nijeo age eta bujhtam na, mone kortam "bujhe jabe to". Kintu na bhai, clearly bolte hobe ki chai, ki bhalo lage, ki kharap lage. Specially amader Bangladeshi culture e amra emotion express korte shy thaki, eta change korte hobe. Raat e phone e kotha bolar somoy just "kemon chile?" na, details share koren, din e ki holo, office e ki problem holo, eta shunle partner feel kore je apni care koren.
Dwitio important jinish holo trust ar space. Dekhen, Facebook e ke like dilo, WhatsApp e ke message korlo - eta niye 24 ghonta interrogation korben na. Ami janio couple dekhechi Dhanmondi te date e giye jhogra korte, just phone check niye. Trust na thakle relationship toxic hoye jay bhai, eta guarantee dite pari. Ar space dewa mane dure chole jawa na, mane holo partner er nijer bhai bonder sathe time katate dewa, nijer hobbies te time dewa. Ami nijer girlfriend ke boli je tumi tomar friends der sathe ghure esho, ami Pathao te order diye raat e khabo ekla, no problem.
Tritio point holo effort continue kora. Dekhi onek couple 2-3 bochor pore comfortable hoye giye effort bondho kore dey. Bhai, relationship ekta plant er moto, regularly pani na dile mara jabe. Choto choto surprise, maje maje baire khaowa, Gulshan e coffee khete jawa, ba just ekta random "I love you" message - eta sob matter kore. Budget kom thakle problem nai, fuchka khaite niye jao Dhanmondi lake e, romantic hobe inshallah.
Last e bolbo, perfect relationship bole kisu nai. Jhogra hobe, misunderstanding hobe, eta normal. Important holo dujone milke solve kora, ego diye relationship noshto na kora. Amader baba mara bolechilen - "rag matha theke namle bujhba tumi bhul chila". Eta mone rakhben. Bhalo thakben sobai, kono question thakle comment e janan. đ
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