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Sourav Ahmad
Sourav Ahmad

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Paribarik somossa niye kichu kotha bolte chai - shobai ki ektu poramorsho diben?

Assalamualaikum bhai o apara, apnara kemon achen? Ami ekta bishoy niye kichu din dhore khub tension e achi, tai bhablam apnader shathe share korle hoyto mon ta halka hobe ar kichu valo poramorsho o pabo. Ami ekjon NGO worker, Dhaka te thaki ar kaj kori. Amar baba ma amake niye khub chintito karon ami ekhono biye korini. Boyosh 32 hoye gelo, tader dharon ami aar deri korle meye pabo na.

Somossa ta holo ami ekjon ke bhalobashi, amra praye 4 bochor dhore relationship e achi. Meye ta khub valo, educated, chakri kore. Kintu amar family tar background ta niye ektu uncomfortable. Tara different district er, ar amar baba ma chai je amader community theke keu hok. Ami jani ei chinta ta purano, kintu baba mar kotha o to felna jay na. Tara amake boro korechen, koto koshto kore padha likha shikhaichen. Tader mon bhangale ami nijeo shanti pabo na.

Ami meye take bolechilam je ami family ke bujhiye dekhi, kintu ekhon praye 6 mash hoye gelo, kono progress hocche na. Meye tar family o pressure dicche je tader meye ke aar koto din atkiye rakhbo. Shotti kotha bolte ki, ami nijeo bujhte parchi na ki korbo. Office e kaj er pressure, upore theke ei family drama, mone hoy matha ta fete jabe. Raat e ghum hoy na thik moto, khaowa daowa o thik nei. Ami jani amader deshe ei rokom situation e onek manus ache, tai apnader experience shune hoyto kichu shikhtey parbo.

Ami ekta NGO te kaj kori, onek family er problem solve korte help kori. Kintu nijera jokhon ei situation e pori tokhon bujhi je kotha bolte khub shokto. Keu keu bole je baba mar kotha shona uchit, tara beshi bujhe. Abar keu bole je nijera bhalobese biye korle shukhi thaka jay. Ami confused je kothay thik kothay bhul. Inshallah shob thik hoye jabe, kintu ekhon really ekta direction dorkar.

Apnader moddhe ke ke ei rokom situation face korechen? Kivabe solve korechen ba ki decision niyechen? Family ke kivabe convince korlen? Please share korun, ami shotti help chai. Alhamdulillah apnader ei community te asha kori keu na keu valo kichu bolte parben. Dhonnobad shobai ke. 🤲

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