Assalamualaikum bhai era, apnara kemon achen sobai? Aaj ekta bishoy niye kotha bolte chai ja amake onek din dhore vabache. Ami Dhanmondi te thaki, age 28, alhamdulillah chakri korchi ekta multinational company te. Kintu ghor e dhukle mone hoy juddher moidan, karon ma baba ar amiyer pura focus ekhon amake biye koranor upor. Protita relative er phone e ek e proshno, "biye korbi kokhon?" Sotti kotha bolte ki, eta ekhon amader generation er shobcheye boro pressure mone hoy.
Amader baba ma der somoy ta alag chilo bhai. Tara 22-23 e biye kore felten, joint family te thakten, income er chinta onek kom chilo. Kintu ekhon scenario puro change hoye geche. Dhaka city te flat er dam dekhen, gulshan dhanmondi te to kotha e nei, mirpur uttara teo 50-60 lakh er niche kichui paben na. Upore job market er competition, career stable korte korte 27-28 hoye jay. Tahole ki amra biye korbo na? Korbo, tobe shomoy ta amader choose korte din na!
Amar ekta bondhu ache, or biye hoyechilo 25 e. Ora duijon e job korto, kintu financially ready chilona. Prothom 2 bochor onek struggle koreche, bKash e salary ashle shesh hoye jeto rent ar grocery te. Ekhon ora stable, alhamdulillah baccha o hoyeche. Kintu or kotha holo, "bhai jodi aro 2-3 bochor wait kortam, life ta eto chaap e shuru korte hoto na." Ei kotha ta amake onek vabay. Biye to shudhu ceremony na, puro ekta life plan kora.
Amader parents der bujhano dorkar je amra biye er against na, amra just financially ar mentally prepared hote chai. Ami nijeo chai ekta shundor shongshar, bhalo ekta life partner, inshallah shob hobe. Kintu rush kore kore biye kore pore divorce er rate baranor cheye, thik somoy e thik decision newa bhalo na? Ajkal Dhaka te divorce er hisab shunle matha kharap hoye jay, ar tar pechone onek khetre ei unprepared marriage e responsibility.
Tai bhai era, apnader jara ei pressure e achen tader bolbo, nijer pace e jaan. Career build korun, savings korun, mentally ready hon. Ar parents der sathe boshhe kotha bolun, fight na kore bujhan. Ora amader bhalo chaan, shudhu sometimes generation gap er karone bujhte paren na. Inshallah shob thik hoye jabe, dunia te shob kichur ekta shomoy ache. Apnader ki mone hoy? Comment e janan 🙂
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