Bhai ra, ajke 17 January 2025 er ekta shokal bela shilpi mon niye boslam biye niye ekta discussion likhte. Sylhet e amar choto ekta friend circle ache, ekhane chaye dokane bosle prochur biye niye kotha hoy. Kisu din dhore dekhtesi je onek young bhai bon biye niye confused hoye pore, khas kore jara job life er pressure, family expectation ar nijer moner iccha er moddhe stuck. So mon holo ekta detailed post dile shayad karo help hoite pare, inshallah.
Biye er age ekta bishal important jinis holo compatibility. Sudhu bhalobasha holei cholbe na, bhai. Diner sheshe jeta proyojon seta holo ekjon manus jake dekhlei mon e ekta shanti ase. Amar ek bondhu, Pathao te job kore, tar biye hoise last year. Uni bolse je tar biyer somoy jeta shob cheye boro matter chilo seta holo tader dui jon er life rhythm match kora. Karam tar wife ekto calm nature er, ar uni ekto rush e thake sob somoy. Ora dui jon agei boshe kotha bole lifestyle, family plan, even taka manage kora niye clear idea share kore niyechilo. Ejonno akhon ora tension kom face kore, alhamdulillah.
Ar ekta jinish sylhet er onek para-pari family teo dekha jay. Family expectation. Kew kew mone kore biye mane shob family khushi rakhte hobe. But, bhai, prothom e nijer moner shanti. Apni jodi nijer partner niye comfortable na hon, tahole family khushi rakhle o ekshomoy pressure hoye jabe. Amar ek older cousin bolto, biye ekta life-long team project. Team er duto player jodi ekshathe plan na kore tarpor problem ashte pare. Tai biye er age sada-kalo clearly bujhe newar cheshta kora valo.
Communication niyeo ekta line add kori. Chup thaka kisu na. Kono problem hole partner er shathe sohaj bhabe kotha bolo. Eita ami nijer life er ekta experience theke shikhsi. Ekbar miscommunication e choto ekta issue boro hoye gelo just karon ami open vabe share kori nai. Tarpor theke chesta kori onek open thakte. Dui jon ekshathe boshe cha khete khete jodi kotha bole nite paren, taile life onek easy hoye jay, mashallah.
Seshe ekta choto poramorsho. Biye kisu race na, bhai. Age moner upor thik bhabe kaj korun, nijer character build korun, ar tarpor jake cacchen tar sathe honest thakun. Life e pressure sobar e thake but right partner thakle sob dorkarer jaygay support pawa jay. Jara biye niye chinta korsen tader jonno shubheccha. Inshallah, sobar jonno bhalo somoy ashbe. đ
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