Biye korte chaile ki ki bishoy matha rakhte hobe?

Assalamu alaikum bhailog, apnader kache ekta important bishoy niye poramorsho chai. Ami Chittagong theke, boyosh 28, alhamdulillah chakri ache ekta private company te. Ammar family ekhon biye niye pressure dichhe, kintu ami confused je ki ki bishoy age theke consider kora uchit. Mane, meye dekhte gele ki ki question kora thik, family background kototuku important, ar income difference thakle ki problem hoy? Ammar kisu bondhu bole sob kichu match korte hobe, abar keu keu bole understanding thakle hoy. Apnara ja experienced achen, ektu bolen to ki ki mistake avoid kora uchit ar ki ki quality prioritize kora dorkar? Specially je bhaira already married, apnader experience share korle upokrito hobo. Inshallah apnader poramorsho pele ekta bhalo decision nite parbo.