Biye korar age ki ki beparta matha rakha uchit?

Assalamualaikum bhaiyera, apnader kache ektu poramorsho chai. Amar boyosh 27, alhamdulillah Uttara te thaki ar ekta bhalo multinational company te job kori. Family theke biye er jonno pressure ashtese, kintu ami ektu confused. Apnader motamot chai je biye korar age ki ki beparta seriously consider kora uchit? Mane financial stability kototuku dorkar, partner er sathe compatibility kivabe bujhbo, ar family er choice naki nijei khunja bhalo? Amar koyekjon bhai boltese prem kore biye koro, abar keu boltese arranged e bhalo hoy. Honestly bujhtesi na ki korbo 😅 Apnader experience thakle share koren, specially jara already married tader kotha shunbo. Inshallah apnader suggestions amake help korbe decision nite.