6 August 2025 er dike eshe biye niye onek chinta-vabna mone ashe, tai ajke ekta chhoto golper sathe amar kichu poramorsho share kortesi. Ami Gulshan e thaka ekjon expat bhai hishebe desher jotil biye culture shikhte shikhte onek interesting experience peyechi. Shuru te shobkichu boro ekta challenge moto mone hoy, kintu dheere dheere bujhlam je biye mane sudhu dujon manush er bondhon na, dui family, dui dhoroner lifestyle, ebong dui rokom expectation er ekta shundor milaap inshallah.
Ami jokhon prothom bar Bangladesh e ashlam, dekhlam je ekhane biye niye discussion fully family centred. Amar ekta bondhu Dhanmondi te thake, uni bollo je proposal ashle prothome manush chakri, family background, character, shob kichu niye proshno kore. Amar kache mone hoy, eta ekdom baje kichu na. Obossho amader western background e personally choice er freedom beshi, kintu ekhaneo jeita bujhlam, family involvement mane ekstra security. Ei jinish ta boro upokar kore, jodi dujon nijera ekta open conversation korte pare.
Amar ekta chhoto golpo share kori. Ekbar ekjon bhai ke biye niye tension e dekhsi. Uni Gulshan 2 te thaken, bidesh theke recently firechilen. Uni bollo, biye er por family compatibility niye oshanti chole ashchilo. Kono boro issue na, shudhu lifestyle difference. Tara majhe majhe khawa dawa niye confusion e parto. Uni biryani lover, ar bashor bari chailo bar bar healthy khabar. Kintu kotha bolei shob solve hoye gelo alhamdulillah. Ei experience theke ami shikhlam je communication na thakle biye jibon asole kothin hoye jay.
Tai amar poramorsho holo: biye r age partner er sathe lifestyle, religious expectation, career plan, future plan shob kichu niye khola mone kotha bolen. Ekta cup cha r sathe Gulshan, Banani, ba Mirpur er kono quiet cafe te boshe naturally kotha bollei hoy. Apnara jodi dujon e ekjon arekjon ke bujhte paren, tahole family pressure, job stress, ba dinchariyar chhoto conflict, kono kisu easily manage hobe inshallah.
Shesh kotha bhai, biye mane perfect manush khoja na. Biye mane ekjon imperfect ke perfect partnership e porinoto kora. Jodi respect, shomman, shoshomoy e support, ar khola mone kotha bola thake, tahole biye jibon onek bhalo cholbe inshallah. Thik shomoy ele Allah sobar jonnoi bhalo ekjon likhe rakhsen, bash ektu shobro hoye chollei holo 🙂
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