bhai ra, ajke 24 February 2025 er eka ta dupure boshe mon holo ekta golpo share kori, jeta shotti bolte amar jibon er ekta gorur chapter. ami Sylhet er lok, paribarer upor boro respect ase, alhamdulillah, amar ma baba onek din dhore shikhai dise je paribarer shanti sabcheye dorjar bishoy. kintu prem biye niye je jhamela holo, seta amar jonno ekta boroi boro shikkha hoye thakbe.
amar ekjon meye friend chhilo, university life e porichoy. sheta akhon 3 bochorer purono kotha. tokhon chinta kori ni je prem ta eto dur jabe. meyeta chilo onek shanto, namaj porte bhalo bashto, mashallah, amar sathe kotha bolle mone hoto jeno ekta alada shanti ase. kintu problem holo, amar paribar chayni je ami nijer pasander meyeke biye kori. tara chaito je amader bari te je rishte choltese oitar moddhei biye hoye jak. sylhet e ekhono onek family e ei system cholche, bhai ra bujheni.
kisui bolo, amra dujonei chesta korlam je paribarke bujhai. ami ma er sate kotha bollam, inshallah bhabchilam ora bujhe jabe, kintu taka-poysha, bihari vs non-bihari background, r jara ki ei sob niye kichu tension chhilo. shotti bolte, amar baba shunte o chayni. tar kotha chilo, “family decision e cholo, nijer pasander biye akhon thik na.” amar mon akhon o bhange jokhon oi diner kotha mone pore. amra dujone ekshomoy break up korte badho holo, sudhu paribarer jonne. seta onek painful silam, bhai.
eikhon, 2025 e eshe life kichu stable, alhamdulillah. kintu oi prem biye niye paribarer problem gulo mone porle ekta heavy feel hoy. ami ekhono chinta kori, shotti ki amader society te prem biye ta eto oshohjo? bhalo manush hole background niye eto chinta keno? jodi ekhono kono bhai ba apa erokom situation er moddhe thaken, ami bolbo ekta kotha, patience rakhen, paribarer sathe calmly kotha bolen, r dua korte thaken. shantir sathe decision nilei valo, inshallah.
mama ra, ei chhilo amar golpo. ekhon ami dekhte chai apnara ki mone koren, onek ke e rokom jhamela face korte hoy naki sudhu ami ei experience niye ghure beracchi?
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