Assalamu alaikum sobai ke. Ami Rangpur theke likchi, boyosh ekhon 67 bochor. Jibone onek kisu dekhesi, onek kisu shikhesi. Aaj apnader sathe biye niye kichu kotha share korte chai. Amar nijeri biye hoyesilo 1982 saleh, ar ekhon amar nati natni ra boro hoye gese. Tader jonno ei poramorsho gulo likhe rakhlam, hoyto karo kaje lagbe inshallah.
Prothom kotha holo, biye korte gele tara tari korar kichu nei. Amar cheleder boltam sobsomoy, manush ta ke bujho age. Amar ek protibesir chele biye korlo dekhe shune, kintu 2 bochor pore divorce hoye gelo. Keno? Karon tara ekjoner sathe aro jonke chinlo na thik moto. Ami ar amar stri 45 bochor dhore eksathe achi, alhamdulillah. Ei jonno achi karon amra biye korar age onek kotha bolsi, family gulo eksathe bosesi, bujhe shune decision niyesi.
Dwitio bishoy holo family ke importance dewa. Bangladesh e amra joint family te boro hoi, ar ei culture ta important. Apni jodi mone koren bou niye alada thakbo ar ma baba ke dekhbo na, tahole bhul korben. Abar apnar bou ke jodi apnar family accept na kore, seta o thik na. Balance rakha lagbe. Amar bou prothom dike amar ma er sathe adjust korte parto na, kintu amra sobai mile kotha bolsi, ar ekhon tara ma meye er moto.
Tritio poramorsho holo financial stability. Ami boli na je lakhopoti hote hobe, kintu ekta stable income thaka dorkar. Amar somoy e amra khub kom taka te songsar chaliyesi, kintu ekhon duniya bodle gese. Dhaka te flat vara, baccha der school er khoroch, shob kichu expensive. Tai biye korar age ekta plan thaka uchit. bKash e salary asbe, koto spend hobe, koto save korben, ei calculation kore rakhen.
Shesh kotha holo, biye mane sudhu ceremony na, eta ekta lifetime commitment. Eid e birani khawa easy, kintu roj roj khichuri ranna kora, shongshar chalano, eta kothin. Patience lagbe, compromise lagbe, ar shob cheye beshi lagbe respect. Apnar partner ke shommaan korun, tar opinion ke value korun. 45 bochor por o ami amar stri ke prothom diner moto shommaan kori, ar ei jonno amra ekhon o happy achi mashallah. Allah sobai ke bhalo jibon sathi dik, amin.
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