Bhai ra, ajke ekta important topic niye bolte chai, biye niye kichu practical advice. Ami dhaka Dhanmondi te thaki, expat life o experience ase, tai dui culture mila ekta balanced perspective dite pari inshAllah. Onekei ekhane prem biye category te biye niye confused thaken, tai chinta korlam je amar kichu personal experience share kori jate apnader kono ekjon er o upokar hoy.
Prothom advice hobe je biye korar age partner er expectation clear thaka dorkar. Amar ekjon close friend recently ekta biye poroborti issue face korse, karon tara dujon age thekei daily life responsibilities niye open kotha bole nai. Dhora jak, office pressure, family involvement, chhuti te travel plan, future city choice, financial planning ei shob niye jodi agey bosa boshi kotha bola hoy, tahole biye por e unnecessary tension kom thake. Amar nijer experience theke bolte parbo, open communication honestly ekdom game changer.
Ar ekta jinish amra onekei avoid kori, seta holo family expectation. Bangladesh e family culture onek strong, alhamdulillah. Amader parents ra chai shontan jeno shukh e thake. Kintu sometimes tara je expectation rakhse seta amader lifestyle er sathe na-o milte pare. Tai biye er age du party family er shathe eka shathe boshle bhalo. Eita ami personally korchilam, ar mashaAllah onek misunderstandings agey thekei clear hoye geche. Ekta healthy understanding future e shanti rakhte help kore.
Eti chara, biye por life er ekta real part holo daily responsibility share kora. Amar expat life e dekhlam je bairesh te husband wife duto equal role play kore, Bangladesh eo ekhon eta onek change hocche. Kintu ekhaneo expectation match na korle problem hoy. Tai ami bolbo, chores, bills, kono kaaj e ke koto involvement nibe ei shob niye agey ekta easy casual discussion rakhen. Jinish ta awkward mone hote pare, kintu biye por e tension komabe, inshAllah.
Finally, amar mot e perfect biye bole kono jinish nai. Perfect mentality rakha dorkar. Apni jodi respect, patience ar understanding maintain korte paren tahole relationship naturally grow kore. Life e chhara ghonta heavy conflict thakbe, kintu jodi dujon mile ek spoon chaa er moto sweet time cut korte paren, taile onek kichu smooth hoye jabe. Apnara jara biye plan kortesen ba biye por adaptation e struggle koren, tara nijeder real feelings partner er shathe share koren. Eitai shobcheye boro kaj. InshAllah Allah shobai ke shukhi rakhuk. 😊
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