Baba maa er choice ar nijjer choice - ki korbo bujhte parchi na

Assalamu alaikum bhailog ar apura, ekta bishoy niye khub tension e achi. Amar baba maa amake ekjon meye dekhe rekhechen biye er jonno, tader choice. Meye bhalo, educated, dhormio - sob thik ache. Kintu amar office e ekjon colleague achen, last 2 bochhor dhore amader moddhe ekta understanding toiri hoyeche. Tare ami beshi bhalo lagi, solly speaking. Ekhon baba maa ke bolte parchi na, tara hurt hoben. Ar colleague ke o kichhu boli nai ekhono officially. Age 28 cholche, family pressure o barche. Apnara keu ki eirokom situation e chillen? Ki korle bhalo hobe - nijjer mon er kotha bolbo naki baba maa er choice e raji hoye jabo? Duita family er izzot er byapar o ache. Kono suggestion thakle janaben please, khub confused achi. 🤔