Assalamu Alaikum sob bhai bon der. Amar boyosh ekhon 68 bochor, alhamdulillah 42 bochor dhore amar stri er shathe shongshar korchi. Ajke apnader shathe kisu kotha share korte chai ja amar jibon er onubhob theke shikhechi. Asha kori, notun projo er kaje lagbe.
Prothom kotha holo, shomporko er moddhe "shona" ba "respect" er kono bikol nei. Amar baba amake bolechilen, "beti ke shomman dao, tomar shongshar sukher hobe." Ei kotha ami mone rekhechi. Ajkal dekhi onek chele meyera ektu problem hoilei divorce er kotha bole. Bhai, shomporko mane compromise. Dujon er moddhe mone na milleo, shobar jonno ektu jhuke thakte hoy. Amar stri er shathe amaro onek somoy motobhed hoyeche, kintu amra kokhono ekjon arekjon ke choto korar cheshta kori ni.
Dwitio bishoy holo communication. Apnara ekhon smartphone e busy thaken, Facebook, TikTok - sob dekhla. Kintu apnar partner er shathe kotha bolen koto khon? Amader shomoy e phone chilo na, tai amra raite khaoar por ghontai khon boshe kotha boltam. Ei habit ta rakhun. Ofis theke fire phone ta ektu dure rakhun, chai er cup niye boshen, din er kotha bolun. Choto choto kotha gulo share korle boro boro gap toiri hoy na.
Tritio kotha - taka poisha niye jhogra korben na. Dekhechi onek shongshar venge jay ei karone. Budget ekta korun, dujone milei decide korun ki kharoch hobe. Amader shomoy bKash ba online banking chilo na, taka er hisab khata te likhtam. Ekhon apnara easily track korte paren. Shompotti ba income niye jealousy ba competition thakle shomporko e poison dhuke.
Shesh e bolbo, patience dhoren. Shomporko holo gach er moto - ekdin e boro hoy na, pani dite hoy, roddur laage, jhore jhapte shojjo korte hoy. 42 bochor age ami o eto bujhtam na. Jibon shikhaiche. Apnader moddhe jara notun biye korecho ba korte jachho, mone rakhben - partner perfect na, apni o perfect na. Dujon milei perfect shongshar gora jay, inshallah.
Allah apnader shobai ke shukhi shongshar dan korun. Kono proshno thakle comment e janaben, jotota pari help korbo. 🤲
Top comments (0)