Assalamu alaikum bhaiya apnara. Ami Nasirabad, Chittagong theke. Amar ekta serious problem niye kotha bolte chai ajke. BCS preparation niye full focus dite chai, kintu family theke biye er jonno khub pressure ashche. Baba maa bolchen 27 bochor hoye gelo, ar koto din wait korbo? Tader kotha bujhi, kintu ami nijeo to settled na ekhono. Chakri nai, income nai - ei obosthay biye korle ki hobe?
Arekta problem holo amader para te ekta meye ache, family theke sei proposal diyeche. Meye ta bhalo, educated - kintu ami ekhon mentally ready na biye er jonno. BCS diye ekta stable job paile tarpor biye korbo, eta amar plan chilo. Kintu maa emotional hoye jaan, bolen "tomar baba er shorir bhalo na, tomar biye dekhte chan." Ei kotha shunle nijeo khub kharap lage, guilty feel hoy. Family ke happy korbo naki career er jonno wait korbo - ei dui er moddhe stuck hoye achi.
Apnader moddhe ke ke ei rokom situation face korechen? Family ke kivabe bujhabo je amar preparation ta important? Naki tara ja bolchen seta e thik? Please keu ektu advice din. Inshallah apnader kotha theke kono solution pabo. Khub confused achi bhai.
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