Paribarik pressure niye ki korbo bhai, ektu advice lagbe

Assalamu alaikum bhaira, ami Rajshahi theke bolchi. Ekta serious somossa niye ektu advice chai apnader kach theke. Amader bari theke pressure diteche biye korte, kintu ami ekhono career e settle hoini properly. Software developer hishebe kaj korchi, but salary ta ekhono emon na je family support korte parbo smoothly. Baba ma bole "besh boyosh hoye gelo, aar koto wait korba?" Ami bujhi tader tension, tara to amader bhalo chaay. Kintu ami chai age financially stable hote, tarpor biye er kotha vabbo. Apnara je keu similar situation e chhilen, kivabe handle korlen? Family ke kivabe bujhaben je career first, biye pore? Ektu suggestion dile upokrito hotam bhai. Inshallah sob thik hoye jabe, but ekhon ektu confused lagche.