Baba-Ma er choice ar amar choice - ki korbo bujhte parchi na

Assalamualaikum bhai ra, apnader kache ekta important bishoy niye advice chai. Amar baba-ma amar jonno ekta meye dekhechen, tader choice, dhormio poribar, Gulshan e thaken, shob kichu thik ache apparently. Kintu ami office e ekjon meye ke bhalo bashi, taar shathe pray 2 bochor dhore kotha hocche, amra serious. Meye ta onek bhalo, namaz pore, Islamic values maintain kore, kintu taar family financially amader moto strong na. Baba-ma ke bolte giyeo pari na, tara hurt hoben mone hoy. Apnara bolen, ami ki korbo? Nijjer choice niye aage barabo naki baba-ma er kotha shunbo? Inshallah kono ekta solution ber hobe, kintu ekhon khub confused lagche. Apnader experience thakle share koren please.