Assalamu alaikum sobai ke. Ami Khulna theke likchi, amar mon ta khub bhari tai bhablam apnader sathe share korbo. Amader society te paribarik somossa niye khola mone kotha bola hoy na, kintu ami mone kori eta niye alochona kora dorkar. Bisesh kore biye related family problems niye amra shobai chup thaki, ar ei chup thaka te somossa aro boro hoy.
Amar ek bondhu r kotha boli. Tar biye hoyechilo 3 bochhor age, love marriage chilo. Kintu biye r pore dekha gelo dui poribar er moddhe understanding nei. Cheleta Dhaka te chakri kore, ar meye tar maa baba Khulna te thake. Sasuri chailto meye ta shobshomoy tar sathe thakuk, ar chele r family chailto bou ta Dhaka te thakuk. Ei tana tani te shesh porjonto tader shomporko te tension dhuklo. Bondhu amake bolchilo je, se bujhte parchena ki korbe. Dui dike dui family pressure.
Ami nijeo dekhechi je amader deshe biye mane shudhu dui jon manush er biye na, eta dui poribar er biye. Ar ei karone onek shundor relationship o noshto hoye jay. Ami Khulna City te social work kori, onek family ke dekhi jara ei rokom situation e ache. Meyeder upor pressure thake je sasur barir shobkichu mene nite hobe, ar chele der upor pressure thake je baba maar kotha shunle bou rege jay, bou er kotha shunle maa koshtho pay. Eta shotti ek ta difficult situation.
Amar mone hoy amader generation ke ei culture ta change korte hobe. Biye mane dui jon adult manush er jibon ek sathe gora, tader nijeder decision nebar space dite hobe. Haan, family important, tader respect o important. Kintu shob kichu te family er interference thakle shomporko healthy thake na. Ami dekhechi je jar poribar era boundary maintain kore, tader married life comparatively bhalo thake. Inshallah amra shobai ei beparta bujhte parbo.
Apnader ki mone hoy vai bhai bon era? Apnara ki ei rokom situation face korechen? Kibhabe solve korechen? Please share korun, hoyto apnader experience theke amra shobai kichu shikhte parbo. Alhamdulillah amader ei platform ache jekhane amra khola mone kotha bolte pari. Apnader comments er opekkhay roilam.
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