Bhai, 14 August 2025 er ei dinta te bosh-e ekta chhoto golpo share kortesi jeita amar kase ajkal onek relatable mone hoy. Amar ek chirodiner bondhu, Chattogram er ei mama, kichudin dhore prem-biye niye oshanti te porse. Cheleta ekhon software developer, office er kaj, deadline, client call shob handle kortei jon er upor pressure. Tar upor paribar theke bolte thake “biye korbi kobe?”, “meyeta ki amader shathe miley jabe?”—erokom proshno, jar karone tar matha aro gorom hoye jay. Ami take boli, “bhai, shob shomoy pressure e decision nile bhalo hoy na, dhore dhore chol, inshallah shob thik hobe.”
Kichu din age se bollo je tar premika ke niye bari-te kotha bolte chay, kintu ma-baba dujon ektu shonkito. Tader bhoy je cheletar career ekhono fully stable na, abar meyeta onno district er boleo tader kichu tension. Amar bondhu bollo, “mama, amra dujon e ekjon arekjon ke bhalobashi, baaki shob manage hoye jabe,” kintu paribar shob shomoy emotion diye chole na, ora future security o dekhte chay. Ami take ekhono advice dei je sobar sathe shanti te bosh-e kotha bol, karon paribar ke bypass kore biye korle porer jhamela aro beshi hoy. MashaAllah, ora ekhon dhire dhire ekta common ground e ashte suru korse.
Ami jeta bujhlam, bhai, seta holo amar bondhur moto onekei prem-biye niye ei shomoy paribari tanatani face kore. Bangladesh e ajkal career, lifestyle, abar paribarer expectation—shob mile pressure ta real. Tobe jodi shantir sathe kotha bola jay, respect deya jay, tahole paribar o bujhbe, prem o thik thakbe, inshallah. Ei golpota share korlam jeno jara same situation e achen tader ekto mon halka hoy. Jei decision nen, nijer mon er shanti ta age priority den, bhai.
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