Assalamu alaikum sobai ke. Ami probash jibon katachhi praye 35 bochor dhore, ekhon senior citizen hoye gechhi alhamdulillah. Aaj biye niye kichhu kotha share korte chai, karon dekhtechhi amader notun generation er chelemeye ra onek confused thake ei bishoy e. Amar nijer 3 ta santaan er biye diyechhi, ar onek probashi poribaar ke ei journey te help korechhi. Tai mone holo amar experience ta apnader sathe bhag kori.
Probashi jibone biye ta ektu different hoy bhai. Desh e thakle poribaar, relatives sobai kachhe thake, patro patri dekhte subidha hoy. Kintu amra jara bidesh e thaki, tader jonno ei process ta challenging. Amar meye der biye dite giye bujhechhi je communication ta sob cheye important. Chele ba meye je deshe thakuk na keno, dui poribaar er moddhe clear kotha bola dorkar. Luko churi kore kichu hoy na. Inshallah je poribaar khola mone kotha bole, tader biye te problem kom hoy.
Arekta jinish ami sob somoy boli, taratari biye diye dite hobe eta niye pressure deben na. Amar boro chele ke ami 32 bochor boyosh e biye diyechhi, kintu taar career stable chilo tokhon. Amader somoy e 22-23 e biye hoye jeto, kintu ekhon duniya bodlaye gechhe. Chelemeye ra educated, career oriented. Tader priority respect kora uchit. Tobe eti o thik je beshi der kora o bhalo na, balance dorkar. Deshe gele relatives ra onek kichu bole, sei pressure handle kora ta amader senior der kaaj.
Patro patri select korar somoy ami onek family ke dekhechi sudhu income ar visa status dekhe. Bhai, ei ta bhul. Manush ta kemon, tar family values ki, dhormo niye ki bhabhe, ei gulo beshi important. Ami ekta family chintam je chele USA te thake, income bhalo, kintu pore dekha gelo chele tar parents ke somman kore na. Oi biye te onek problem hoyechhe. Tai bolchhi, character first, baki sob second.
Shesh e bolbo, biye ta dui jon manush er jibon jure rakha. Taratari korle o problem, beshi analysis korle o problem. Duare path e Allah er upor bhorsha rekhe age barlen. Ami amar tin santaan er biye te dekhechi, je jodi dui pakkho honest thake ar realistic expectation rakhe, tahole alhamdulillah biye shukher hoy. Apnader kono proshno thakle bolben, inshallah amar onubhob theke je tota pari help korbo. Bhalo thakben sobai.
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